Take a moment to appreciate your life

[g_na]

Times are strange right now, I think we can all see that. I feel like the world as we know it is on the verge of upheaval ... I just hope it works out for the best

Comments

[lunesse]

I haven't had this happen to me yet with a friend, either. I am not sure.... how I would go about it. I see your hesitation, as an aquaintance, if you show up now, it is obvious why. But is that so bad?

Ugh. I am not sure.

[g_na]

You nailed it, Carli.

[g_na]

Thanks, Joe :)

[atomic_usagi]

Since I'm 99% I know who you're talking about, I think at this point a kindly worded letter would be a good option. Let them know how they touched your life and that you are thinking about them. I don't think they are up for visitors so it might just stress both of you out. In all honesty, an in person visit is unlikely to be quality time spent with them. It is hard to say that but it's been on my mind pretty much non-stop for the past 24 hours (and on and off for the past many months).

*hug*

[g_na]

Yes, it's the same person. It's been on my mind all weekend as well. I like the idea of a letter, and if they eventually say they are up for and accepting visitors I can do that, too.

[allartburns]

Agreed. I have no idea who it is, but in general, I think a letter is a good start. Maybe they barely remember you, maybe they wish they'd stayed better in touch with you and miss you.