if anyone actually reads this (and i have an idea of who you are) you've probably never done this to me (i'll leave margin for error on who actually reads this
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No person died, but this is a death. You are dealing with an emotional death. A death that on some levels is worse than the physical death of a body. I'm not sure I've said this to you, but behind your back I have remarked at how well I actually think you are doing (all things considered, and there are a lot of things to consider). Sure, only you see the true you, the real you inside your head, so I can only judge on what I see. But what I do see is a very strong and brave person trudging his way through an inconceivable mess the best and only way he can. This process is going to be slow going, and you will always have this pain to some extent. This isn't something to get over or get past, you're getting through it. I feel lame giving advice or even my opinion since I have never dealt with tragedy on this level. But I love you and you're important to me (to us). -Erin
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I'm not sure I've said this to you, but behind your back I have remarked at how well I actually think you are doing (all things considered, and there are a lot of things to consider). Sure, only you see the true you, the real you inside your head, so I can only judge on what I see. But what I do see is a very strong and brave person trudging his way through an inconceivable mess the best and only way he can. This process is going to be slow going, and you will always have this pain to some extent. This isn't something to get over or get past, you're getting through it.
I feel lame giving advice or even my opinion since I have never dealt with tragedy on this level. But I love you and you're important to me (to us).
-Erin
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