i dont think you need marriage to make love like "official".. i view marriage as.. like.. mostly being able to have sex with out getting yelled at, by anyone.. being able to put your money together, have your name on checks together.. etc those types of things.. i dotn see it as finalizing love.. i mean.. yea you shoudl only get married if you are in true true love, but you dont need to get married to prove taht you are in love. love comes in all shapes sizes, colors, patterns, you name it.. IIII personally feel that you can love your husband as much as you love.. like.. your best friend. but you see, that co-insides with each other, cause your best friend should be your husband.. or your husband should resemble the qualitles and traits that of which your best friend has.. so if you get my drift.. i dotn feel that you need to get married to be in love.. but you need to be in love to get married... and once again.. these are MY personal opinions, dont deny them and say they are wrong. and i dont care about what the church says and what
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also, to answer the actual question.. i think that love is.. a feeling that over comes your body, and you dotn realize it.. but its like.. if a bus were coming towards the person you loved and you did not hesitate ONE BIT at all to push him/her out the way.. and sacrafice yourself.. you know what i mean.. like you dotn ahve to think twice.. do a little shuffle with your feet, anything.. its like.. immediate reaction.. ya know?.. its just something were you cant wait to come home to see how their day was, to come home and talk to them, or to bicker with them, you cant wait to be in their arms, to see/feel/smell them... i cant describe it.. but its jsut an over all bliss of the mind, heart, and body.. its a natural high taht one can have... but to me, its a feeling where you never want them to feel any pain, any sorrow, anything negative. you only want them to feel joy and laughter, etc.. there is much much more, and i could go on for hours apon hours of my philosophy of love, but i know many people are going to have a contradicting
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i dont believe what i am about to write in this. first to get the odd thing over with, i agree with haily...
"its just something were you cant wait to come home to see how their day was, to come home and talk to them, or to bicker with them, you cant wait to be in their arms, to see/feel/smell them... ...its a natural high taht one can have... ...its a feeling where you never want them to feel any pain, any sorrow, anything negative. you only want them to feel joy and laughter, etc.."
thats true. now to normal stuff....
i think about this alot, and i have no clue what it is realy. i often think, like most people, that love is marriage. it isnt. and then i will say i have no idea about love, which i just have, BUT i do, and everyone does know what love is about. we all love someone, be it our parents, sis/bro, friends. we love people, we may nor relise it though, but we do. the better we love each other now, as friends, it will be easier to relise what love is later. personaly the love i have with my friends is the same
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first to get the odd thing over with, i agree with haily...
"its just something were you cant wait to come home to see how their day was, to come home and talk to them, or to bicker with them, you cant wait to be in their arms, to see/feel/smell them... ...its a natural high taht one can have... ...its a feeling where you never want them to feel any pain, any sorrow, anything negative. you only want them to feel joy and laughter, etc.."
thats true.
now to normal stuff....
i think about this alot, and i have no clue what it is realy. i often think, like most people, that love is marriage. it isnt. and then i will say i have no idea about love, which i just have, BUT i do, and everyone does know what love is about. we all love someone, be it our parents, sis/bro, friends. we love people, we may nor relise it though, but we do. the better we love each other now, as friends, it will be easier to relise what love is later. personaly the love i have with my friends is the same ( ... )
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