Comments | galactic_spiral: What i want to say to his face

galactic_spiral

What i want to say to his face

Jan 13, 2007 12:27

DISCLAIMER: Some of you may not want to read this...you know who you are. This is a very angry post in response to a person i thought was a friend but turned out to be a complete jerk. This isn't to anyone who is on my LJ friends list. If you have any constructive advice of how to deal w/ an individual like this, by all means comment, but if you ( Read more... )

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I hope this is constructive enough. saint_angelus January 14 2007, 06:55:48 UTC

Up until the sex part I thought this was about me. Just goes to show how self oriented I am. But honestly sweetie, just tell him this. Though people say I shoud be more sensitive when I am in situations like this, I believe that sometimes, when shit like this happens, the asshole in the situation needs to be "lit up." Yell at his ass, obviousely hes not considering feelings and (I am assuming) probably failed to communicate the rules, intentions, and boundries before he started the relationship. He seems rather clouded. So If it was me in the situation I would "lite him up." or I would just politely tell him that its over and that its damageing to me (aka: you) and it isnt helping him any. I hope this is constructive enough. Just so you know I wouldnt even presume to know how you feel or the situation. But I care so i had to say something right? Anywho... I love you. Take care sweetie.

Re: I hope this is constructive enough. galactic_spiral January 14 2007, 18:54:48 UTC

This actually helped a lot. You always give really good advice...now it's just up to me to see if i'll have the balls to do this. This happened a while ago, so the anger has subsided a bit, but I'm just still hurt and he thinks of it as he broke my heart, but i never gave him my heart. I'm just hurt that he would be so thoughtless and careless even though we were sleeping together...men...oi. we should get together soon. are you going to school this semester or just working that job you were telling me about?

me love you long time... saint_angelus January 16 2007, 16:29:12 UTC

It should be noted that you dont have to "lite him up." with furious anger. Though I do believe you should be angry at him and express it. Call him out on his shit. In the long run its better for all parties in the situation.

Yes, we should get together soon. you still have my number I hope. see you soon ^_-