"will" isn't a pseudonym to protect the guilty, right? it's not, dun duh, fred, right? :-P seriously, that's a problem not telling you, but it's the sort of info you'd be afraid to reveal early in case you scare a person you realllly like away. not that it makes it ok. i'd guess it means he got somebody pregnant because adoption is something you really think about and are very happy and proud to be doing and that would make you share it with others, no?
"will" is actually his real name. I guess in my anger I let it slip in there. so i'll never work for the Times.
I understand the fear of scaring people away with things like that. I really do and am using it as a blanket to soften the blow right now. but when i sent him an email saying, "Congratulations?", he responded very happily and with the airs of a proud father. so I'm guessing it was the adoption or not the result of getting somebody pregnant. i guess time will tell. I promise to keep everyone here in LJ world informed.
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seriously, that's a problem not telling you, but it's the sort of info you'd be afraid to reveal early in case you scare a person you realllly like away. not that it makes it ok. i'd guess it means he got somebody pregnant because adoption is something you really think about and are very happy and proud to be doing and that would make you share it with others, no?
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I understand the fear of scaring people away with things like that. I really do and am using it as a blanket to soften the blow right now. but when i sent him an email saying, "Congratulations?", he responded very happily and with the airs of a proud father. so I'm guessing it was the adoption or not the result of getting somebody pregnant. i guess time will tell. I promise to keep everyone here in LJ world informed.
PS: YOUR progeny is sooooo beautiful!!!
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