Drama at _we_r_beautiful
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her_longing (her_longing) wrote in _we_r_beautiful,
@ 2005-11-16 12:55:00
MOD POST//i'm over the drama
You three think I'm a bitch? Here's a real reason to think I'm a bitch: jesser39, gavins_mom and _murrrie have all been removed from the community and banned. I am SICK and tired of this drama. If you girls can't move on past something that happened over a month ago, then that's sad. You need to move past the immaturity of childhood and try to act a little more like adults, considering you are all over 18 years old, I would expect that you would act that way; however, obviously you don't.
I would just love to know how I'm a "fucking moron", etc.
I want to thank the people who came to our defense when that post was made, it was very nice of you.
From this post on (meaning if you want to comment about this situation post comments to THIS POST ONLY), this subject is DROPPED. It is never to be brought up again. Like I've said, I'm so sick of the drama that it's not even funny. I moved past the situation and never brought it up again, but apparently those three just can't get past it. As I said in a reply to junienicole's reply to my comment in bestassbelow14's post, bad things about me and this community are still being said in certain individuals personal journals as well as gavins_mom and _murrrie's little "_we_r_beautiful MOD community" (It was updated 13 hours ago, no doubt dealing with the "drama post" made by Niki's sister (for those of you who didn't know who jesser39 is, she's gavins_mom's sister)).
I just get the feeling like they're trying to make me so mad that I will either leave the community or close it down, neither of which is going to happen. If they're that immature that we have to keep dealing with drama from them, then I guess we'll have to deal with it when the time comes. For the time being we have made the community so that requests to join are emailed to us for approval (i.e. it is now "moderated membership"), and we are contemplating making the posts moderated as well. I REALLY don't want to have to do that, because not only is it a pain in the ass to have to check EVERY SINGLE POST, it's unfair to the girls who are active and post relevant nice posts.
We have debated over this topic several times as MODs for the past month or so (ever since I came back as MOD) and we didn't want to have to delete/ban them, we wanted to play it out and see if they would eventually calm down and stop causing so much drama, but it just got to be too much and we had to do what we had to do.
On to other topics:
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jen_master_j
2005-11-16 07:10 pm UTC (link)
I think you handled this the same way I would have handled it.
You made the community, you don't deserve to get backlash from a couple of whiners.
Do what you gotta do.
♥
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her_longing
2005-11-16 07:11 pm UTC (link)
Thanks. :)
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jen_master_j
2005-11-16 07:15 pm UTC (link)
Anytime. Which brings me to a sidenote...
If gavins_mom is a parent, why did she spend all her time and energy on LJ drama?
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her_longing
2005-11-16 07:19 pm UTC (link)
I have no idea, I wondered the same thing. It's one thing to spend some time on the computer and be in communities and stuff, you probably need a little time away from your kid (as long as some one else is there to watch them or whatever), but she spends massive time on the computer causing all of this drama, you would think that she would have better things to do, like spend time with her son, but who am I to say? :P
(I AM NOT SAYING THAT PEOPLE WHO HAVE KIDS SHOULDN'T BE IN RATING COMMUNITIES, I want to clarify (not for you jen_master_j, but just incase someone else might misread what I said)). :)
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junienicole
2005-11-16 07:21 pm UTC (link)
Well, I support ya and you know that <3
Glad they've been removed and banned. Maybe this bullshit will stop now.
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jen_master_j
2005-11-16 07:22 pm UTC (link)
Totally.
They were ugly anyway.
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her_longing
2005-11-16 08:24 pm UTC (link)
LOL
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wolfpackangel06
2005-11-16 08:36 pm UTC (link)
LMAO :)
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her_longing
2005-11-16 08:24 pm UTC (link)
Thanks. ♥
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_____jadoredior
2005-11-16 11:22 pm UTC (link)
How come I always miss the drama! What happened anyways?
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her_longing
2005-11-17 12:53 am UTC (link)
LOL!! :P
Uhm, well to summarize: Remember when I left the community for like a month and then came back as head MOD and de-MODed gavins_mom and _murrrie? Well, all this drama went on then. The one post that I made literally had 140 posts on it, and they were bringing rude comments into my personal journal (about how much they hated me, but convienently they did it anonymously and were like "I don't know what you're talking about"). Well, it stopped for a while and I thought we were all over it but then jesser39 made a post on I believe it was Monday night about how I'm a "fucking bitch" and me leaving the community was the "best thing that ever happened" to it. And I'm a "fucking moron" and I run a "shitty community". She also called wolfpackangel06 ugly and said that she had her nose stuck up my ass. So, when people came to our defense, gavins_mom got in on jesser39's side (it's her sister). There ended up being over 50 comments and then Lisa finally deleted the post because it got to be too much drama.
_murrrie and gavins_mom have their own "MOD" community, even though they are no longer MODs of this community and they keep updating it (talking about us). Also, they keep talking about us in their personal journals (about me being a bitch, etc).
So, therefore, I'm thoroughly sick of it, and I deleted and banned them all.
I think that's a pretty good description of what happened. :P
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_____jadoredior
2005-11-17 01:11 am UTC (link)
Haha, thank you! Sorry I'm nosy and I like knowing all these kinds of things :)
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her_longing
2005-11-17 01:52 am UTC (link)
Oh, that's ok. :)
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HEY _murrrie lol they think WE are ugly!!
The community is being closed as of january 11th
They are fucking retards, do they not realize my posts/comments are between 9-5 or after 9 when my kiddo goes to bed... i've only pointed that out 1028348934 times...I-D-I-O-TS!!!