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[geami]

I’ve never known princes and princesses stories in which the narrative would go beyond "they married and lived happily ever after". Married - essential condition for happiness, ever after - breaking the temporal attribute of relationships without any support reasoning, without any explanation, a methodology for how to do it right. That would come

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Re: oh all the questions!

[geami]

there is a sentence by oppenheimer that goes along this:
"what really matters in poetry and literature are the empty spaces"

i believe empty in the sense of white
something that could not belong to conscious awareness
regions of an origin nature, that we have never stepped on or explored

[ex_antemeri]

I have the perfect example of parents and grandparents who have been happily married for decades, and yet I am cynical when it comes to love. I don't see myself with someone by my side in my happily ever after, and to be honest, I don't really want one.

[geami]

too bad :)
i happen to like chameleons

[rather_reticent]

If you find it
I would love the secret

[geami]

i try to be truthful about myself
and truthful
about my feelings towards the others

:)

[rather_reticent]

I don't think they can be picked
I think it picks you...

[_redcorvette]

When you get those answers, get back to me.

I seriously doubt that love can last without both people making the choice to make it last. Deciding it will. Which to me, really isn't love. It's dedication and caring, but it's not love.

[_redcorvette]

Then again, love can't be defined, so there is no point in trying to do so.

[geami]

i agree
i've always thought why you can spend ages without being in touch with a friend and when you do it is as if time had not elapsed
that is unthinkable in the love case
i guess our problem is the selfishness
pure love should be unilateral but we always want return

[_redcorvette]

Our problem?

I have no false visions of anything lasting.
The only thing constant in life is change.

how did this get so long? :)

[almond_sun]

I do think certain people make a difference. When they come around you just know instinctively that they're making that difference within you, you can feel it deep inside. Whether you admit it to yourself or not is another story

Re: how did this get so long? :)

[geami]

wow :)
thanks for taking the time to write this down and sharing your oppinion. your happiness is contagious :)

i do believe there are people that make a difference
and i think we should not wait until we find the certified guarantee
we live once. period.
every relationship is dynamic, and there are no safe ways to handle it