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[geekyflip]

The show (Jewtopia) is going well enough for me to post about it now. It has been some uber stress--with Patrick going to jail, we had to replace our leading guy (playing the main Jew and my fiancé) after our first weekend. How ridiculous

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[danelover18]

talked to Paul. I confessed my doubts and told him how worried I am that my easily distracted psyche indicated a weakness that meant I'm not ready to be married yet. He assured me that it's only natural. He said to list 8 things that I have that I wouldn't have if we weren't married and to think of that list whenever I miss my old life. I'm glad that A) you did this, B) that you communicated everything you were scared about and C) that your husband is there for you 100%. Sometimes we have to continue to question ourselves so we may grow and change. Being young and married can be stressful, but so long as you and Paul can sit down and say, hey I'm feeling this way and you discuss it, then your relationship is not only 1000 times stronger, but you always know you can come to each other no matter what

[geekyflip]

Hey! check your LJ private messages!

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Wandering eye

[abitabbynormal]

When I got married my mom told me this "when I was in grad school your dad and I had just gotten married and there was this guy in my class that I was attracted to, and I started freaking out, and then I thought SO WHAT this feeling does not mean I have to do anything about it, and it went away pretty quickly after that." They have been married for over thirty years.

Re: Wandering eye

[geekyflip]

That is something to consider. I've been fairly sure for a long time that my mother is a freak of nature--that is, Dad was her only boyfriend EVAR, and she says she was NEVER interested in anybody else. (That, and she's never had to shave her legs--she has bald legs. /jealous!) She didn't see him for 5 years after his family moved to the States when they were both 18, she lived in Hong Kong and traveled the world as a super sexy airline hostess for three years--and never once expressed an interest in dating anybody because of her "boyfriend in the States." So, naturally, this led me to question what was wrong with me.

I'm glad that your mother has applicable advice, lol.