What is wrong with some women? I mean seriously, you have a great guy right in front of you that loves you to pieces, doesn't care about your perceived faults, or any of that shit, and you still throw him away for some asshole who is only looking to get into your pants. Who cares if he's hot, or if he drives a new mustang, you know god damn well ( Read more... )

“Or that love is pity ( Read more... )

"We have lost sight of the fact that we human beings are, in one respect, like small animals without even any fur or sharp teeth to protect us. What protects us is not our visciousness, but our humanity; our ability to love others and to accept the love that others want to offer us. It is not our toughness that keeps us warm at night, but out ( Read more... )

It started out innocently enough. I began to think at parties now and then to loosen up. Inevitably though, one thought led to another, and soon I was more than just a social thinker. I began to think alone - "to relax," I told myself - but I knew it wasn't true. Thinking became more and more important to me, and finally I was thinking all the time ( Read more... )

"I want to love you without clutching,
appreciate you without judging,
join you without invading,
invite you without demading,
leave you without guilt,
criticize you without blaming,
and help you without insulting.

If I can have the same from you then we can
truly meet and enrich each other."

So, I was reading an article in Psychology Today about rejection-sensitivity, and it has some amazing things to say about alot of the problems that I have had in the past.  For instance:

"The difference between a normal response to rebuffs and an over sensitive one may be summed up in one word: rumination.  Highly rejection-sensitive people are more ( Read more... )

So this morning I went to the farmers market in Murfreesboro. It was nice now that some of the veggies have had a little time to grow. Last time I went I think there was only about 8 booths and they all had pretty much the same thing, little potatoes, some small squash, zuchinni, and some small cucucumbers. This time they had a tremendous amount ( Read more... )

What a day ( Read more... )

I propose a new meme ( Read more... )

The 5 Dimensions of Love ( Read more... )