Comments | gemmi999: 14 Valentines -- Asexuality

gemmi999

14 Valentines -- Asexuality

Feb 13, 2012 22:20

Today is LGBTQ day for 14valentines. For those of you who don't know what 14valentines is, take a second to explore the community. It was started ages ago (like, 5+ years, even! *snerk*) to celebrate women in the days leading up to V-day. I am a huge supporter of 14valentines, and every year I try to write at least one thing for it. This year has been really hectic, and I'm ( Read more... )

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akire_yta February 14 2012, 06:23:21 UTC

Labels are not permanent, they are just an easier way to organize information

I want to print that out on cards and hand them out to EVERYONE!

yoshikochan February 14 2012, 18:29:08 UTC

Mailing label stickers! :D

akire_yta February 15 2012, 03:42:07 UTC

FOR EVERYONE!

gemmi999 February 17 2012, 02:36:34 UTC

Awww! :) Seriously, though!

chameleongirl79 February 14 2012, 10:40:15 UTC

asexual aromantic high-five! o/\o

gemmi999 February 17 2012, 02:36:48 UTC

Woooooot! high five! :)

yoshikochan February 14 2012, 18:42:22 UTC

*sigh* it sounds nice, to have it all figured out.

I do want to have sex with guys, but I don't want to put all the effort into starting a relationship, and I don't want to have sex with just anyone. And I want to have kids just because but I don't want to go through pregnancy so I hear you on adopting, but I don't want to raise them alone either.

I want everything to be effortless and just take the good parts. ._. And I'm not even sure I really want anything, other than to make my parents happy.

gemmi999 February 17 2012, 02:38:18 UTC

I have it all figured out for now, but who knows what tomorrow will bring. *sigh*

I hear you about wanting to please parents, though. 'tis a vicious, vicious cycle.

There's a jewish expression--Gam Ze Yaavor, which basically means: "this too shall pass" and I think that applies here. Because everything eventually passes, and something else replaces it, and life just continues.