My relationship is definitely better. It's always been good, but we felt something "click," as if things made a little more sense to us. I think we both kind of knew something was up with me, but we didn't know what exactly.
I think coming to terms with my identity issues has had very positive affects on my life. I'm forced to be more honest with myself and because of that I can be more honest with others. I feel like I can be more genuine. I'm more comfortable with myself, even as queer as I am and the complexity of that; I've still got a lot of stuff to work through but I feel more able to inhabit my life now. Even though I dress as masculine as I can, I still come off as very androgynous so yes, people do treat me differently; I can be dismissed or ignored more easily, or pointed out. I'm happier with myself though, and that gives me the strength to deal with the static.
Funny story.rapiericeJanuary 27 2008, 10:23:47 UTC
I saw this topic before leaving today for a party and considered posting but decided that apart from losing a teeny bit of weight, I really don't have a damn thing to say other than "I feel better."
Met up with a guy I was into like, two years ago at the party. I guess we're dating now, and I even told him I'm questioning/trans.
You like, charmed it somehow. O_O I don't know wtf.
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I love my wife. ^^
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Met up with a guy I was into like, two years ago at the party. I guess we're dating now, and I even told him I'm questioning/trans.
You like, charmed it somehow. O_O I don't know wtf.
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