Objectified and ????

[gtijohn]

Have you ever been objectified for part of yourself that you don't particularly appreciate? Or have you ever been the one objectifying that in someone else? How did it go

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[poohbearray]

Once, when I was on my way to work. I was sitting at the bus stop, drinking my coffee and minding my own business, with some older guy who'd been sitting there longer. He started his conversation with "Hey, nice package" and informed me that he was checking out my crotch the whole time I had been there. He then proceeded to tell me that he wasn't gay or anything, but liked sleeping with guys, and that I should skip work to go back to his place with him for some "grass n' ass" (his exact words). Needless to say, I couldn't have been happier when that bus showed up. He just kept sitting there, waiting for someone else to show up and get hit on, when I got on and left.

It wasn't so much feeling objectified, but rather like "Great, I only seem to get cruised by the guys without tact, taste, or wit." It was a great self-esteem booster. :-\

Yay Bus!

[gtijohn]

Ah, yes, I sorta know what you mean about that. Definitely excitement for the bus showing up when it did!

I feel your pain

[poohbearray]

Amen to that. Two of my exes were more than stuffed when compared to my average attributes, and frankly they terrified me. I think it's about the "masculine" image and physical size = sexual prowess. Usually, that's BS.

As another man with tits, I feel your pain. I'm a bit self-conscious about them too, and I hate when my hubby gets the urge to "play" with them, which consists of jiggling them around and giggling.

[menace3]

Hmm..Wow. I’m a chaser and I like chubs. Bellies don’t necessarily turn me on, though I am a big butt man. And that’s a difficult line between objectifying chubs and being turned on by someone who has what I like. There are 2 things I what to say