Comments | geojulie: just another thing

geojulie

just another thing

Dec 02, 2005 23:05

I think I have TMJ or something like it. Yesterday, the right side of my jaw was a little stiff. I thought little of it, and that it would go away. Today it was worse. It feels okay sometimes, but suddenly I'll try to close my jaw all the way and it's mildly painfully. But just that side. And 20 minutes ago, I had both sides of my jaw ( Read more... )

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gordon27 December 4 2005, 14:51:38 UTC

I feel bad for your friend. I did that in college...probably a few too many times...and fell flat on my face every time. And there was a sharp blade protruding from the floor where my face hit. You get the picture--crash and burn.

The one thing that bothered me about that was that every time, I lost the person as a friend. That hurt the most out of anything. Please try to still be friends with him...for my sake. OK, for the sake of every guy who's had the courage to do what he did and struck out.

I was going to bitch about some random things, but I'll save them for material for my next post.

*hugs*

geojulie December 5 2005, 03:45:35 UTC

I will never, nor have I ever, shun a friend solely b/c he or she admitted romantic feelings for me. It's never been necessary, and things have never been awkward; true friendships are built on stronger bonds. Of course there are other reasons I have lost friends, but that is another story.

Besides, I've always known (so far) about an individual's romantic feelings for me before he/she told me. So it didn't change the way I saw the person, except for having more respect for them to actually have the courage to come forward and tell me something that is so very heartfelt.

Etc etc.

Sorry to hear about the crash and burn stuff. I think everyone has been there at some point in their lives (at least I like to think so). Even I have been there. Yes it's true - more times than I care to remember, when even once is too many times, as far as my emotions are concerned.

Oof, time for bed.

gordon27 December 5 2005, 12:47:14 UTC

Well, you are a bird of a different feather, if you follow what I'm trying to say. And good for you. And I knew that already.

And you hit on another point--I think part of guys' problems is that girls are sometimes clueless--whether accidentally or just being in denial--when guys have feelings for them. I mean, guys get clingy and borderline stalker-ish when they have "secret" feelings for a girl--how could they NOT notice?!

And I've begun too many sentences with "and".