Not all who wander are lost

[germanpanda]

Let me start out by saying that I should really be doing homework right now. Yet, the last few days I have found that my motivation to do well in my classes has somewhat dwindled. It's not that I don't want to do well in my classes but I guess I just wish that I would have taken different classes then I picked out

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[tuppy94]

I think you're perfectly capable on your own, but you prefer to have the company of others; you're more comfortable there. Lets admit it, you're a social butterfly, but that doesn't mean you're incompetent by yourself. I can think of plenty of times you've gone and done things alone and shared good memories of those experiences.

You just realize the value of having companions, something that many of us take for granted.

So say we all, Apollo out.

[little_ersatz]

So many things I could say and you know that it will be almost impossible for me to keep this as short as I am going to

[little_ersatz]

Fifth: Be Patient with your friends, you are better at this than anyone else. All other people waiver because we are no longer a people raised with conviction to anything. You have the benefit of being gifted by the chief (part of my theory about you). You know the songs and the lessons of a world much older than you should, you are slowly teaching that to the people in your life but it takes them longer to pick it up. Don't lose hope for if you do you truly will have nothing left to live for

[anonymous]

You probably do care about the group the most. Things aren't the same as they used to be. I think everyone of us has said, "You are my really good friend, but you aren't as important as X." And that is OK. The game has changed, women bring a happiness into our lives that is unattainable from a group of guys. We all need to accept that before we know it, we will be out on our own in the world. Jobs, long term relationships, families (hopefully more later than sooner). All these things require more responsibility and time commitment than they did in high school. Does that mean the group is done? Absolutely not. Keep planning stuff, keep inviting everyone. Take whoever you can get and have a good time. If we can't make it, it's nothing personal, we are probably just busy with our other responsibilities. And be patient, our heads might not always be in the right place but our intentions are good.