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[___absent]

My ex boyfriend Pete has been in Ireland for a month. We were together for 7 months, and we broke up about a month before he left. During the time of when we broke up and he left he tried to win me back. But I kept saying no because I knew it was time for us to be over. The thing is, with him being gone I keep thinking of him and our memories

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[xxitalianaxx]

the missing him afterwards comes from a saying "you never know what you have until its gone" even tho you knew it was time to end for good, you were reminded what was good. you figured if he is gone, you wont be tempted to go see him and it will be easier to move on. when he comes home, let him be for a few days, let him relax, unpack etc and see what happens. if nothing happens and you want to then go to him and see whats up, be prepared for rejection since you were told that he doesnt want to be with you out of fear of being hurt again. good luck!

[enchanted__love]

firstly, why did you guys break up in the first place? was it because he was moving away or not?
But anyway, if you decide you want to be with him, then go for it, you have nothing to lose, but its unfair if you're going to hurt him.
Hope it works out xx

[love_backwords]

hey.. im new to the community, but..
i definatly think you need to contact ur ex..tell him exactly what u wrote.. speak the truth and everything that came from the heart. u need to gain his trust back. even if he still doesnt know if he should go back out with you or not, atleast you tried, and can prove to yourself if hes worth it. if not.. just let urself know you deserve better anyway. now if you dont tell him.. well than nothing could really ever happen now could it?
♥ Erica