my my my....

[ghostinthemiror]

how things will never change. alot has happened in the last week or so. i met someone. not john. the night of abbys wedding. someone who i had a crush on for like a year, possibly more, but never pursued it because i was consciously not dating and then afrim and i got together. well, we started hanging out and talking. things are a little wierd.

Comments

[daisydaisy]

f him, dont give him another chance he has let you down so many times and you arent even offically dating. guys dont change. i see what youre saying when you say things are different with him though and theres a connection, and you feel as though he'll changed and work out great, and its all romantic and magical...as much as we (us girls) want to believe in fate and true love its not always the way it is. dont pass up on the good guy. or do, its your choice im just voicing my opinion---ps who are these fella?s

[ghostinthemiror]

yeah im pretty much at a point where im thinkin...f him. the other guy is amazing and WORTH my time. john isnt...if i wanted another afrim in my life i wouldve stayed in nyc and stayed with him. i dont need the bullshit. i dont need the headache. i need to be happy and the other guy makes me happy...and your opinion is always welcomed and always considered.and most of the time youre usually right...love you<3

[anonymous]

i don't know if you trust my opinion at all but i must say, i think girls like guys who blow them off because they think that maybe they're special enough to change them from a guy who doesn't give a shit to a guy who does. then we justify it to ourselves by getting ourselves to believe their half-ass apologies and promises. i've done it many times, and yea, it makes you feel special, for a few weeks, until you realize that nothings changed and nothing ever will.

good boys are the right way to go. they're already where you want them to be so you don't have to try to change him and he doesn't have to change for someone else.

[ghostinthemiror]

yeah i definitely see what youre saying. i have done that so many times. thats why im pretty sure im walking away from the whole john situation. the more i time i spend with the other guy the more i see myself with him. and being happy. not wondering when hes gonna be in a good enough mood to call me or not ditch me. the other guy is amazing and id be stupid to let that go.