:skims through friends list: Phew, i always get really paronid after reading entries like that. I understand exactly what you're saying about being too trusting with people you think you can trust who dont take your feelings seriously and then turn around and have a laugh about it. There's a time and a place to be nice and theres a time to be serious and from what i've learned with "friends" that i'm no longer friends with is that those people just arent worthy enough to be in your life if they cant comprehend that.
i've had the same issues lately and i just removed this person totally from my life - cellphone, LJ, whatever. they just kept on letting the relationship linger and backstabbed me. i felt a bitch for a while to have done that, having done the first step etc, but reading this entry i realise that maybe it was better this way - if you can't get a bit of respect from someone supposed to be a friend, then it's better to let them go. we don't need them in our lives.
and you need love and respect and trust and friendship. and if they don't understand that then you can live without them.
so thanks for this entry - and i hope you feel better now.
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and you need love and respect and trust and friendship. and if they don't understand that then you can live without them.
so thanks for this entry - and i hope you feel better now.
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