Closet

Feb 05, 2007 22:07

Hello. Had to rant somewhere so here I am. I am in the closet. It isn't terribly difficult considering that I am bi. BUT my friends are trying to set me up with this guy that ( Read more... )

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alix_tenoh February 6 2007, 20:40:44 UTC
couldn't you just come up with reasons why you don't want to date him involving his personality, or you could just tell them you dont find him attractive

i can see why that sucks

don't worry we will stone them back

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gigi2690 February 6 2007, 23:17:54 UTC
Trying...but according to them he is perfect for me...and truthfully I wouldn't usually have a problem...but the main reason I don't want to date him and find him unattractive (because honestly his is my type) is because when I see him...I see her. And that would be a terrible relationship.

As much as I might like to stone them back...the whole laws and morals thing stops me lol
Gigi

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carinjo February 14 2007, 13:44:06 UTC
I admire your conviction in not wanting to go out with this guy. I also feel for you for having to hide who you are at a time when you should be out enjoying and exploring the joys of becoming an adult. Hang in there. Survive through it the best way you can because I promise you, in the not too distant future you will be able to get to a better place both geographically and mentally. And in the words of I think it was Woody Harrilson: being Bi doubles your chances of scoring on a Friday night (or something like that)

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gigi2690 February 14 2007, 21:35:19 UTC
I love that! The bright side is that because I am bi am only hiding part of who I am. It helps. Thanks for the support...my friends are finally starting to get the hint. :)
Gigi

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... anonymous April 17 2007, 19:54:59 UTC
I am bi too but everyone I have told is accepting. I am extremely sorry to hear about your situation. No one should have to live like that. I am pretty much still in the closet to most people. Only my closest friends and my mom know. If you ever want to talk, my e-mail is kidmoo2@yahoo.com.

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Re: ... gigi2690 April 20 2007, 04:22:16 UTC
You've told your mum, that's braver than me. I wish acceptance was more widespread here, but I have a hard enough time telling people that racism isn't accepted anymore. *sighs*
gigi

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gigi2690 April 20 2007, 04:20:40 UTC
First off I wouldn't mind at all if you added me, and secondly braver?

Doubt it.

I have three friends who know: one lives across the country in Montana-and she is Bi as well. Another lives-you guessed it-across the country in Miami. And the third person does live in the same town as me but she is so liberal that I could say that I was a communist flagburning slut and she'd sulut me.

I'm pulling for you too :)
gigi

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