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[gillywine]

What's the best way to grieve an acquanitance? Cry until his closer friends stop crying? Or say nothing, and attempt, quietly, to understand what they miss most.

I am sorry, sorry for the people I love, and his three kids.

Comments

[applexmonster]

Just don't force the sadness, even if you feel sorry. I don't think you'd do that, though. It's just so frustrating because I've seen so many who will, and I feel insulted when I see it.

His cat Oscar will come to you in the night to reward your sorrows and your sympathies. I'm sure of it.

[gillywine]

It really is just that he was such a good guy, on a great and general, there-will-be-an-absence scale, and that the people I do love are hurting, that's what makes me sad.

His cat's name is Oscar? After a famous Oscar?

[applexmonster]

He really was a good guy, and I love him dearly. It's so funny- after community there was an air of pure grief and then the rest of the day went on, abrasive and noisy. I don't know what people are feeling.

You know, we aren't really sure if it was Oscar, but it sounds familiar... you'd have to ask Mona about it.

[not_anorexic]

im too lazy to read your guys' comments so im just not gonna comment on them.

[not_anorexic]

i have this theory that if you let blood dry you can use it as a crayon

[not_anorexic]

hey ariel