I would like to bring it to everyone's attention...

[gilraenfelagund]

...that Derek looks very nice, not to mention H-O-T...in a suit...

Case in point...This was right before we went to a wedding on Saturday...gah, you have NO idea how surprised I was when he showed up wearing THAT...I was thinking, you know...a nice shirt and some slacks...and he goes and shows up wearing a freakin' suit

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[angelfallentear]

all I'm going to say...Have the wedding you want...fuck what they want...it's not for them...it's about you...it's YOUR day...do what you want...and don't try to make everyone else happy with your wedding, you'll end up unhappy.

[gilraenfelagund]

Ahh, Holland...I wish I could have the wedding I want. But seeing as my parents are the ones paying for it, that's more than likely not going to be the case.
But I don't really see it as just my day...it's Derek's day too, or it should be. He's the other half...*shrug*
If I had my way, it'd just be a quiet wedding...not even at a church...we'd be married by a justice of the peace or something like that...and then we'd go and have a quiet reception somewhere. No alcohol, no obnoxious friends...
Seriously, eloping sounds SO much more appealing. But then I think of all the people that'd be angry with us for doing that...meaning, my family, his family, my friends, his friends...EVERYBODY...
See, the wedding itself will be fine for me...even though it'll be in a church and neither Derek nor I really care for that idea...but we'll both be able to get through that. It's the reception that strikes fear into my heart, hahaha...