How come you feel like you ever have to change who you are?...I guess what i am trying to say is that you might want to try to know yourself better rather than trying to change yourself who knows maybe you will be happeir sorry i don't really know you enough to comment but i feel like i can relate because i too usually try to futiely change myself and end up feeling a lot emptier than i strated off with.
I guess really you are right. But sometimes to fit into society, we have to at least take on the appearance of changing our ways, yeah? Also I feel like life changes who you are sometimes. I know I've changed recently, just not probably the way people wanted me too. Maybe I should just wait and see how life changes me instead of trying to force change on myself? I don't know. Maybe I'm contradicting myself again with that idea.
I know what you mean about assimulating in society a lot of times when i worry about how people precieve me my friends take me as a vain person but really its in our human nature to want to fit in so i undrstand you wanting to fit in society, however how we define ourselves i think rests in our standars of right and wrong otherwise moral. And about contradicting yourself i have noticed you worry a lot about that from your post but hey life is about contradiction nothing is set in stone right?
Again I have to agree with you I do worry a lot. I think sometimes so many thoughts are going through my head I just don't really check over what I'm typing and fear contradicting myself. And, of course I'm being friendly! You're showing me understanding so no need for hate right? I always say kindness has to start somewhere. :)
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P.S. Thanks for the friendly response =]
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