the good, the bad and the choice

[ginnyvos]

I have... Not had the easiest life one might have. I've been through a lot of things and if you make a pro's and cons list I'm pretty sure it'd end in the negative... And yet

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[oracle_dreams]

absolutely... every single word!

[i_am_zan]

Totally absolutely right on girl. *HUGS* ^__^

[amelia_seyroon]

Now if only more people would do the same thing!

[ginnyvos]

it's really a choice. And I'm not saying it's an easy choice, but it IS a choice that gets easier each time. As for making the choice the other way (glass half empty), if that's what you need, than fine. But after a while (and with a while I mean weeks, more than a month now), it's time to stop wallowing in the missery and at least try to get back to your feet.

It's incredibly tiring to have someone ask you to help them when they're down and then have them working against you every step of the way because they really don't *want* to be helped back up.

[ginnyvos]

I know, I know... It's just... I'm so, so tired of my own crab (thesis that keeps going and going and going) and have two people leaning primarily on me right now that are both down because of the other and their disfunctional relationship. Sometimes I really just want to scream at them to get their shit together and get their heads out of the sand, get over themselves and either break up or make up.

It gets... Very tiring after a month of the same.