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[girl_named_hope]

So my ex, he and I have been broken up for a little over a year and a half. I have a really nice book of his father's that I would like to return to him.  The ex, refuses to see me and wants me to either mail it, or drop it off at his work, no negotiating on that. He is also engaged now/possibly married (some people speculate that he is already

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[jhotas]

hm, that's incredibly frustrating. i agree that he should man up and be able to handle seeing you to get it back, but maybe he's afraid of having all of those feelings resurface and burying them deep and "moving" on regardless of actually dealing with the emotions attached is a pretty strong force to try to face. or maybe he just thinks it'll be awkward. or maybe he thinks he'll wanna jump you when he sees you :) haha. it's hard to let go of things like this, for sure. you guys were together a long time, it's not like you can flip a switch, and chances are he isn't quite as moved on as he presents

[girl_named_hope]

I ended up giving the book to a mutual friend cause I just wanted to be done with it. Of course I got a reply from him saying he was sorry if he got angry but he thought being adults meant coming up with a solution on how to get the book to him.. which really meant me dropping it off at his work or mailing it to his dad since he refuses to see.. so there really was no compromise. I didn't even take the effort to respond.

My therapist thinks he is still in love with me. Which if that is the case, then I feel bad for his fiancee.. and her son. but its no longer my concern anymore.

I am official done with that. and him. It really just isn't worth it anymore.

my friend suggested I mail it to his address, not his parents, and do C.O.D. and put a brick in the box. it was a tempting thought haha