Maybe they're not crying to make a scene....maybe it has just hit some people that death can come at such a young age, to such good people....maybe people are questioning their own mortality and realizing the important things in life....maybe some people are thinking "what if that was my brother...or sister...or best friend...or me" Maybe some people didn't even know him, but they are just upset because of the types of emotions that a tragedy like this brings about. Myabe you should be a little more understanding.
a little more understanding? HAHgirlsmileyFebruary 25 2003, 15:21:09 UTC
yeah, well, everyone dies at some point, young, old, male, female, black, white, whatever, people die, and if you're in high school and you're THAT damn upset, DONT go to school...and like i said i do feel bad for his family and close friends, but it ends there. and more than HALF the people didnt even LIKE him and thats what is most amazing, one day they're talking shit about him, and the next day they're CRYING and making a scene because he's dead...but whatever, i wont beat the issue do death....and by the way.. leave your name next time, because im laughing at you right now.
rite on for feelin how u feelportugezedanca7February 25 2003, 17:59:08 UTC
howeva, i cant ignore tha fact of how ignorant u r...i must agree that it pissed me tha fuck off that ppl uzed liveyz death az an excuze ta get out of class and im not tha only one that feelz that way...howeva, tha majority of tha "tearz" were in fact real, becuz ure wrong ppl DID like him, ppl luved him and they still do...and unfortunately, that announcement ova tha intercom wuz tha first time that sum ppl even heard of hiz death...how would u feel? oh, thatz IF beneath that cold heart, u actually have feelinz...i think ure so wrapped up in bein different or bein a bitch that u forget that all ppl dont deal with thingz tha same way u mite...but i really shouldnt be sittin here and wastin muh preciouz energy typin thiz shit ta u and tha shit may hit tha fan once i send thiz but so be it..."just my thoughts"
Re: rite on for feelin how u feelgirlsmileyFebruary 25 2003, 18:09:10 UTC
LIKE i said before i was talking about the people who were talking shit about him just two days prior-- but maybe you wouldnt know that, there isnt a doubt in my mind that people loved him, liked him, whatever, but the fact still stands that there were people who were using this as an excuse.. the same thing happend two years ago when emanuel died and you know what? the story was the same then as it is now, its bull shit.... and i have a cold heart? and i want to be different? how is that? i think thats kind of funny actually. i dont go out of my way to be different... and whatever, you think im a bitch? big fucking deal, wait maybe i should cry about it- oh NO i wont because i dont cry about things that mean nothing to me- unlike most people that got out of class to go to lecture hall one...
before we stray off the subject of livey...xlilxkimxFebruary 25 2003, 20:25:03 UTC
raar? anyway, personally, in my opinion (which doesn't really matter, but i'm fond of sharing), if a group of people experience a loss of some sort, it's comforting to be with other people who are going through the same thing... that way these people in mourning can relate and talk to eachother about it... i mean, isn't that how people usually deal with stuff and get through it together? that's how we cope and get through tough times... well, most of us anyway. i remember when my aunt passed away, it helped me a lot to be with my family because we could all relate and comfort eachother. maybe that's what people were looking for by going to school. i don't think there's anything wrong with crying when you need to. i dunno, my two cents...
Re: before we stray off the subject of livey...girlsmileyFebruary 26 2003, 03:38:57 UTC
i dunno, but i thought that was what the wake and funeral were for..maybe my views arent right, but every time someone in my family has died, we get together at the wake and funeral and mourn
Re: before we stray off the subject of livey...xlilxkimxFebruary 26 2003, 14:07:29 UTC
this is true, but there can't be specific times for mourning. i mean, it's like going to the bathroom, you can't control exactly when you do and for how long you do it. ok weird analogy but y'know.
Re: before we stray off the subject of livey...girlsmileyFebruary 26 2003, 15:26:50 UTC
yeah you have a point- sorry ive been such a bitch about the whole thing it just makes me mad sometimes, and the people who really feel bad know how they feel and the people who are faking it big time also know how they feel, so what im trying to say is, the people who are faking it, should just stop, its so aweful
aiite...first i was gonna be all angry and bitchy and leave a mean ass comment about what you said...but its not worth it because i dont know whats going to happen tomorrow or any other time in the future, and (god forbid) if anything happened to me or you or anyone, i would feel horrible if the last thing i said (or posted) was something mean that i would regret. but anywho i was pretty good friends with Livey and i do agree with you about the people who were talking shit about him two days before he died were running down to the Lecture hall to miss class and to scream and cry for no damn reason. i think that the reason people got so upset about your comment was because it seemed like you were just bein cold and bitchy...but i understand what you were sayin, even tho i agree with kim that people prolly came to comfort one another and most of the people i know deff didnt come just to get some sympathy...anyway, to end tha novel, i kno what youre sayin, and more power to you for puttin your opinion out there like that, when you knew
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Re: hmm...girlsmileyFebruary 26 2003, 18:22:16 UTC
yeah, i think people def. took it the wrong way, i know that you were friends with him, and i have a lot of people in mind who actually werent, and for those people who actually were friends with him, i am sorry. i should have been more considerate with the way i put things- i dont think before i say things, or in this case write them... but anyway thanks for not being mean, but i would have understood if you were mean..talk to you later
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yeah, well, everyone dies at some point, young, old, male, female, black, white, whatever, people die, and if you're in high school and you're THAT damn upset, DONT go to school...and like i said i do feel bad for his family and close friends, but it ends there. and more than HALF the people didnt even LIKE him and thats what is most amazing, one day they're talking shit about him, and the next day they're CRYING and making a scene because he's dead...but whatever, i wont beat the issue do death....and by the way.. leave your name next time, because im laughing at you right now.
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personally, in my opinion (which doesn't really matter, but i'm fond of sharing), if a group of people experience a loss of some sort, it's comforting to be with other people who are going through the same thing... that way these people in mourning can relate and talk to eachother about it... i mean, isn't that how people usually deal with stuff and get through it together? that's how we cope and get through tough times... well, most of us anyway. i remember when my aunt passed away, it helped me a lot to be with my family because we could all relate and comfort eachother. maybe that's what people were looking for by going to school. i don't think there's anything wrong with crying when you need to.
i dunno, my two cents...
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