Motivation

[glacean]

Hello LiveJournal,
I was talking to my boyfriend today, about a lot of stuff in rap music, and I got the kindling to make a new blog just to get my rants out on some subjects I end up ranting about. I have a bad habit of making these things and then forgetting about them after a few posts, but maybe I won't forget this time. If anything I'll just be

Comments

[lilgirl786]

Ok wait a second Travis. Having sex with someone of the same sex doesn't automatically make you gay. I thought the argument for what sexuality is defined as is who you're sexually attracted to. It doesn't necessarily follow that if you have sex with the opposite gender that you're straight- a lot of gay guys have had sex with women before. The other way around is that if you have sex with someone of the same sex, it doesn't necessarily follow that you're gay. Although I'd like to know why that idiot let another guy suck his dick if he's "straight

[glacean]

Well I think you in some way miss my point. There're four sexualities out there. One is you're attracted to the same sex, another is you're attracted to the opposite, a third is you're attracted to none, and the fourth would be you're attracted to BOTH. In order TO have sex with a person you would have to have some sort of attraction somewhere, meaning if a "straight" person has sex with the same sex then they're obviously not straight, they're bi. Sex takes a form of attraction, that attraction doesn't have to be the whole body, it can be certain parts, in which case it was a guy's mouth. If you're willing to have sex with someone there's attraction somewhere to that person, and that defines your sexuality.