Who I Want To Be and Do and Things I Value
A good friend
Loving
Intelligent
Non judgemental
Patient
Artistic
A woman of many languages
Not afraid to laugh
A good student
Questioning rules and people
Apologetic
Honest
Doesn't hold back
Stick to my beliefs
Change my beliefs
Discover my beliefs
Well-traveled
Positive
Embrace others
Take pleasure in others
Listen to the heartaches of others
Have serious conversations
Have stupid conversations
Enjoy being alone
Feel lonely
Have fun
Try new things
Don't be embarrased
Be organized
Be thoughtful
Let go
Cherish friends
Be without friends
Have a man I love and stick by no matter what
Fall in love
Love myself
Think before acting
Be impulsive
Find myself slowly, expect that I will change
Don't be afraid to change
Don't be afraid to stay the same
Experiment
If I'm not liking an experiment, drop it immediately
Be unsure
Be sure
Tell people when I'm thinking something bad - work it out
Have good posture
Look people in the eyes
Get in shape
Eat healthy
Dance often
Dance loudly
Dream big
Get deep, don't fear, think
Feel good
Cry
Yell, scream
Laugh till I fucking hurt
If I'm not having fun, you're not having fun
Know when it's too much
Tell/Show everyone who I am with no regrets
Change who I am, even if everything else would be different or it seems too late, and have no regrets about it
Get a tattoo
Get my labret pierced again
Really explore what I love don't feel bad about it just do it and accept what I find
Decorate
Jam out and sing loudly
Express myself through art
Express myself through words
Make funny facial expressions
Always pay full attention to the person speaking, listen well
Compromise
Be approachable
Be weird
Make friends with people I dislike
Read often
Study hard - educate myself
Relax, feel safe
Breathe
Self-evaluate
Never forget I'm in control of my life
Never forget I can't change the lives and choices of others
Don't get offended, listen closely then breathe, then make my own judgement, don't block criticism
Give myself the freedom and control to say no
Give myself the freedom and control to say yes
Think hard about what I want
Decide exactly how much outside opinions really mean to me in any given situation, think about it seriously, then make an independent decision
Make realistic goals
Make crazy goals - push myself to achieve them
Remember I will die someday
Fuck society when I have to - don't be afraid of sanctions
Love society the rest of the time
Be empowered
Give myself time to become this person I want to be