All my adult life (well, include the teen years as well) people have been telling me I'm complicated. Every once in a while someone would use the word "complex" instead, if they were wanting to be nice about it
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Anytime someone calls me complicated, my baseline understanding is they are trying to deflect me.
I'm not simple, but I'm pretty straightforward myself these days. I have some pitfalls, but if I can avoid them -- avoid trying to rescue anyone or tell someone how they're feeling or ask for reassurance from someone with low resources -- and be an equal? Nobody's calling me complicated.
Feeling for you.
Good loch sticking with your simple and straightforward self.
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Bleh. Sorry glowie.
Anytime someone calls me complicated, my baseline understanding is they are trying to deflect me.
I'm not simple, but I'm pretty straightforward myself these days. I have some pitfalls, but if I can avoid them -- avoid trying to rescue anyone or tell someone how they're feeling or ask for reassurance from someone with low resources -- and be an equal? Nobody's calling me complicated.
Feeling for you.
Good loch sticking with your simple and straightforward self.
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