Kids

[glowworm]

I can't understand why I don't really like kids. Instinct tells me that I am too selfish to like them because they demand a lot of attention and care, which I probably invest into myself more than anything. I used to joke a lot about not wanting to have kids and never being able to take care of pets, much less kids. I really don't have a nurturing

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[crasher000]

Life is just want you make of it. It's weird, but I am the exact opposite of you right now. I want all of that kid stuff and the crap that comes along with it as well. But my life right now is keeping me FAR away from those ideas. If I keep up the pace that I am at, I will be that rock climbing, traveling, fit person that you inspire to be. Maybe we should just trade lives for a bit and see how it is like. But don't let anyone tell you any difference on having kids or not, some people just don't want to have them. It's no biggie to think that of yourself. If you feel deep down in your heart that it's right, then follow that emotion and don't let society screw with it. SCREW everyone else, this is your life. Yet indeed it feels nice to have something every once in a while to care for and look after. This is all just my .2 cents worth.

But if you do want to take me up on my offer, I will pay for your flight out to Kuwait. Just keep that in mind and let me know.

[jessicathegreat]

my sentiments exactly...it just makes me wonder, isn't there some type of middle ground? Like, have a kid and keep your life relatively the same? Of course, that has to be done without becoming one of those "i'm trying so hard to be my daughter" moms...its a complicated subject to be sure!

ha!

[muhmuhmatt]

You said the word "poopoo"! You are totally ready to have kids!!!

I see a lot of moms (and dads) out there who are pathetic parents that have no idea what their children are doing, and don't care, and I want to kill them for being a neglectful dumbass. I think it's perfectly fine not to want them for now. That being said, I've met a very small amount of kids that made me think "I hope my son/daughter is exactly like that" because they are just so awesome. But most of them are just dirty, sticky, ugly, dumb little bastards. I'm going to have an awesome kid, you just wait.

You should get a dog to find your nurturing side. Get an inside dog, and love him so much. And let me come and play with him. Every day.