Here's a question for ya - lots of them, in fact.

[gobywan]

How do you deal with your feelings when you resent the fact that you have those particular feelings in the first place? What do you say to yourself when you expect that you "shouldn't be" lonely, that this is somehow a sign of weakness? What do you do when you can't figure out why you're lonely and you can't convince yourself that you're OK on your

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[lonelytechie85]

decide why you resent them and deal with that first.

listen to your friend whos telling you its not a weakness but a strength because your not the one to be with anyone just cause your lonelyu your looking for the right one and shell come along when your both ready

again listen to your friend who will tell you ur not truely loney first off u have many good friend

and it makes your U, the person you were born as and your experiences have guided you to be and this is another experiences that will guide you further in your journey.

Dont ever forget that you have so many good friends and therefore never alone you can always call any of us im sure and one day you will find that specail woman of your life and make her a very happy woman because your a caring and sweet man who gives all his love he can to those who will accept it.

[seafoodmwg]

i think it makes you normal [which might be surprising considering in contradicts your expectations of the "right" reactions].