Plans vs Spontaneity

[god_o_chocolate]

The universe has it out for me

Comments

[guitar_stitch]

I would think that living life without a plan is more hazardous than anything. O.o I'd actually have a long term panic attack if I found myself without a plan.

[god_o_chocolate]

What if every plan you made failed though? Like epically?

[guitar_stitch]

Surely not EVERY plan has failed. For instance, even simple plans such as what to have for dinner can contribute to your self esteem. I would use small plans like that as an example, then concentrate on the things that make those plans work. Once that happens, then you can use that same concept for larger plans, eventually ramping up to making lifetime plans. :) Baby steps, Niji, Baby steps.

[god_o_chocolate]

yea gotta keep it baby steps, unfortunately going beyond baby steps doesn't work but at least baby steps keep me sane enough :3

[dejiinu]

I need structure as well. Spontaneous behavior grates on my nerves, and I generally dislike people who are too spontaneous. I wouldn't pay too much attention to delusional thriving people. I find that they typically bring me down or make me angry.

You should just try and make plans anyway, at least for yourself. That way, you don't have to worry about hurting people.

[god_o_chocolate]

Yea, yet you are always spontaneous with musicy stuff :P and I just can't fit in to that hahah.

But in seriousness; I do, only I am aware that they will fail due to circumstance, like tonight. Maybe it is more of a "because I think they will fail, they will" kind of thing though. As well as every good thing that has happened to me has happened by not planing it, or very little. like moving here, coming here to visit buck originally, meeting you, deciding to talk to you online etc. All things I decided to do on whims basically. Maybe I am using the wrong words, I dunno, I have little to go on :(