Is it bad to feel like running full tilt into a wall? I'd do it, but i know that if i did the fucking dorm people would charge me for denting their pretty wall with my fat head
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To throw my two cents in...although she says you guys have got this mostly sorted out and I hope you have, cause it's awful to have both of you feeling kind of hurt and angry without anyone having done anything wrong at all. But
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Thank you Heather. I understand what you are saying. I think I'm just trying to feel things that haven't had enough time to develop, rather than focusing enough on what has developed and what is coming. You're right, it's silly for us to feel so bad when nothing bad has happened. I think it's just an example of how all people have our own things to get over in our heads. I think that Amy and I have some similar things going on with us, and in some ways it's so cool, because we already think alike in so many ways. But in other ways, it makes it hard, because when you both are approaching and issue from similar, but still different perspectives, it is hard to get enough of a different point of view. I don't know if I'm saying what I'm thinking with the right words, but suffice it to say that I think that your perspective of Amy and my relationship is just right, and I value your opinion greatly. I think, just like it will take time for Amy and I to become familiar more deeply with each other, it will probably take time to fix
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I think you're right about the point of view thing, that it's more of a shock to run up against a difference when you're used to delighting in all the similarities. But time, and being willing to take the time should sort most things out.
I also just wanted you to know that as far as I'm concerned, you're family by extension now, because Amy is closer than family to me. So anytime you need to talk, I'm here too, and actually would be just for the sake of the friends we were and are.
Usually literally here, online, cause I have no life. That's ok, I enjoy my not-life. Yep yep yep.
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I think you're right about the point of view thing, that it's more of a shock to run up against a difference when you're used to delighting in all the similarities. But time, and being willing to take the time should sort most things out.
I also just wanted you to know that as far as I'm concerned, you're family by extension now, because Amy is closer than family to me. So anytime you need to talk, I'm here too, and actually would be just for the sake of the friends we were and are.
Usually literally here, online, cause I have no life. That's ok, I enjoy my not-life. Yep yep yep.
Alright. Enjoy the rest of your weekend...
Heather.
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Im that guy with the lazer
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