It sucks that your brothers don't take what they have seriously. Owning a house is a large responsibility and if you don't keep it up the property value will not only plummet, the repair bill for when you need to fix/clean everything will be staggering.
Why don't people plan for the future and have the foresight for these things... it's mind boggling?
Maybe they are treating life like a game and like to play it on "Nightmare" difficulty.
I for one have little sight for the future, cuz then one is just so much more screwed when it doesnt turn out how its planned. I think learning to be adaptive and able to make best of the current situation is so much better. Thats no excuse for nottaking care of a home though X_X
Interesting. I've tried to stay away from an ad hoc existence and planned things for myself. This modus operandi seems to have worked well for me so far.
Mind you I am not exclusively a single plan person as that introduces a single point of failure. Perhaps the best is a hybrid blend of an ad hoc existence and a planned one. For example you craft your plans with multiple paths which take into account potential failures and liabilities, and should the master plan not come to fruition you adapt with another plan and resolve the shortcoming.
That aside, best wishes in helping your brothers see their failures. I hope that they shape up soon.
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It sucks that your brothers don't take what they have seriously. Owning a house is a large responsibility and if you don't keep it up the property value will not only plummet, the repair bill for when you need to fix/clean everything will be staggering.
Why don't people plan for the future and have the foresight for these things... it's mind boggling?
Maybe they are treating life like a game and like to play it on "Nightmare" difficulty.
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Mind you I am not exclusively a single plan person as that introduces a single point of failure. Perhaps the best is a hybrid blend of an ad hoc existence and a planned one. For example you craft your plans with multiple paths which take into account potential failures and liabilities, and should the master plan not come to fruition you adapt with another plan and resolve the shortcoming.
That aside, best wishes in helping your brothers see their failures. I hope that they shape up soon.
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