it's like you're the swing set and I'm the kid that falls
Piss and shit it all. Just had a dumb argument with my big sister.
So somehow, SHE lets ME down by going away for the week that my little sister comes to stay and so I have to look after her all by myself - and this happens all the time. So I say I'm bummed about it, and then she gets MAD AT ME FOR BEING LET DOWN. I don't get it. She twists everything around so that somehow I'm the one being unreasonable! But this happens so often - my little (16yo) sister comes to stay (she lives in another city) and my big sister takes off for the weekend with her husband. I usually don't say anything, but this time and did and boy did she make me regret it. She feels guilty and so she got all defensive saying I was being so hurtful to her but the thing is, I didn't yell at her or anything, I was just saying the truth! And so she changed her plans and then is acting like this massive matryr that she's now gonna go away two days later and making it obvious how much of a big inconvience it is for her and obviously making sure I'm grateful that she changed her plans....ARRGH...I'm just rambling now.
It's just...don't you hate it when you have those people in your life that are just baffling to argue with? Like they talk around in circles until they somehow make it about you and you're left there wondering what the hell just happened? So over it with her, it's been happening all my life.
Alright, that's it, rant over. I just needed to vent. There's no answer to this dilemma, we've actually had really good adult conversations about it tried to rationalise it but I just had to blah on here because in reality, I just folded and didn't make all the points I should've because I don't wanna be stressed right now and so I don't wanna argue with her. So I just shut up but I am feeling frustrated about it now and that's why I ♥ LJ. Coz there's noone else who I could vent this to without starting more drama.
FANDOM STUFF..
TRUE BLOOD series 3 started here last night. It really made my night :) Looks like there's gonna be lots of Eric/Sookie this season...win. I still don't get the casting of Bill sorry. Tho, it looks like all the TB boys have been working out! Hot. And wow, Anna Paquin just gets more and more beautiful imho.
VAMPIRE DIARIES series 1 just started here too. (I know, we're so behind here in NZ!) (and I know I could watch all these series online but, call me weird, I kinda like having a weekly fix of a show that I have to look forward to. Even though I have MySky (Tivo) so I watch it when I like but Idk...I'm weird like that.) ANYway...V Diaries was pretty good, I'm gonna stick with it. Reminded me a little of LJ Smiths' Nightworld series. The guy who plays Damon is CRAZY hot and I already ship him with Elena - he's the bad boy so big surprise there haha. But they have good chemistry. But the dumbest thing was that I went to Wikipedia to learn a little more about the characters and BLAM...spoiler fest. Whoops.
Ok that's it. Phew I needed that vent. MY SISTER IS STOOPID SOMETIMES!! There, done.
ps - waiting to see Eclipse on Monday. Didn't go straight away because I couldn't get my hugge group of 14 in to the first few days. Having dinner and making a big night of it - lame, maybe. Fun, yes :)