Sex is about the right time and the right person, I think. Not necessarily waiting until marriage or some monumental time like that, but simply knowing that you love that person enough to give youself to them, and it of course being the right time in the relationship.
In my own humble opinion, it's pointless to have sex with someone you do not trust completely. Someone's in whose hands you would honestly put your life. In a way, that's what you're doing. Trusting them with sexual history, trusting them not to hurt you, trusting them to love you more that lust after you, trusting them to stand by you should things get . . . complicated, for even the most effective birth control isn't 100%. Trust that is so beyond question that you don't even have to think about it. Love, too, but then, in my experience, love and trust are practically one in the same. Idk, it means different things to different people. For all I see on campuses, sex is simply a fun activity to enjoy with whoever is willing to join you. Nonetheless, I offer my two cents . .
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If the answer's no, then don't do it.
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