Revolution.

Sep 18, 2007 22:01

I've taken a lot of big steps forward today ( Read more... )

change, genderqueer

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killingm00n September 19 2007, 03:30:07 UTC
Well the good thing is that you're not doing anything surgically right now, so you don't have to worry about decisions that'll last an entire life. That's why people have the therapy before they transition and why its a good idea to do it.

YOu didn't tell me you put in your two weeks!!!!!! Congrats! You can get a better job, seriously. Even if its just a retail job, it'll be better than wendy's.

I'm really proud of you for everything you're doing and I'm so glad that we met and have so much in common and to talk about, seriously. I think that it was a blessing for both of us to find someone in the same situation in the same town.

that's me being cheesy ♥

i hope your net is okay! you disappeared! text or im me tomorrow.

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goldeneyes17 September 19 2007, 03:42:16 UTC
Aye, that's absolutely true when you put it that way. I can't imagine making that choice without consulting someone first.

Awwwwww. You're so sweet. I totally agree, I'm so glad I met you I can't even put it into the right words. It's so great to have a friend in this.

-hearts!!!-

Oh yes, I think just about anything will be better than Wendy's. I can't wait for something new!

I'm back! Haha :D
Can't get rid of me!

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goldeneyes17 September 19 2007, 22:41:19 UTC
:) <3 !

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anonymous September 19 2007, 14:04:59 UTC
Thing is - your gender identity does have an impact on any potential partners. I'm trans. When I like someone, I have to consider the fact that if I ask them out, and they want to, they may have to start thinking really hard about their sexual orientation, and if it's what they thought it was. So just be prepared.

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silberash5 September 19 2007, 14:06:45 UTC
That was me.

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goldeneyes17 September 19 2007, 22:42:14 UTC
Yes, and I definitely recognize that. I hope it doesn't change the way that she sees me, but I accept the fact that it might.

All I can do is hope for the best.

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ridermicah September 19 2007, 17:14:54 UTC
good luck talking to your girlfriend. it's pretty essential that you do.

hopefully it won't be as scary as you think.

after all, you're still the same person she has been dating, you're just being more open and honest about yourself with her.

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goldeneyes17 September 19 2007, 22:44:20 UTC
Aye, thanks!

Yeah, I'm hoping it won't be too big of a deal, especially considering that I have no desire to transition any farther than having top surgery(or at the very least a breast reduction). I just hope genderqueer won't be too much of an in-between concept for her to handle. But... I think she'll take it better than if I actually planned to transition

Who knows, I'll just have to see -crosses fingers-

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