OOC: Narrative Kinks
Note: Based on this list, these are things I particularly think might work well with Kirk as I play him, either as things to explore with or about him in roleplay. It doesn't mean I'm not open to any others; this represents a combination of my kinks, Kirk's, and my initial thoughts on what it's possible to do with him.
* Abuse (There are hints in canon; by this I mean exploring issues of *past* abuse)
* Abduction as seduction (beloved captives)
* Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)
* Aliens make them have sex (fuck or die; fertility rituals; intoxication; taking one for the team)
* Amnesia
* Anal penetration with foreign objects
* Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on)
* Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)
* Angst (see Emotional themes)
* BDSM
* Biological imperative (pon farr or mating drive; being in heat)
* Bisexuality
* Body swap
* Bondage
* Bonds (telepathic or empathic; psychic links; mating or soul bonds)
* Bottoming
* Canon (canon elements/canonicity heightens characterization or scenario)
* Catalysts (e.g., character A shows interest in character B, which makes character C realize how hot B is; or other catalytic events bringing about such an epiphany)
* Charisma (see Powers of attraction)
* Chastity devices
* Cock bondage (cock rings; harnesses and straps; leather ropework)
* Coming without being touched
* Confessions (revelation of love/desire; of other secrets; truth or dare games. deathbed confessions; revealing truths when feverish)
* Crossovers (characters thrust into other universes; canon universes merged; sex between characters played by same actor)
* Crush or unrequited love
* Cuddling (see Touch)
* Cunnilingus
* Delayed gratification
* Dildos (dildo gags; harnesses; strap-ons; ritual phalluses)
* Discipline or punishment
* Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable)
* Dominance and submission (See also Submission; Servitude; Master and slave, etc)
* Double penetration (anal, vaginal, or oral)
* Emotional themes, emo-kink (angst; wallows; darkfic; emotional damage; psychological trauma; tragic pasts; broken characters; guilt and shame; mental instability; sadness and grief; abandonment or fear of same; characters who can't go home again; fear in general; nightmares; loneliness; broken-heartedness; failure; insecurity; self-hatred; self-mutilation such as secret cutting; suicide; see also Insanity)
* Exhibitionism
* Face-fucking (blow-job)
* Fake rake (a man falsely rumored to be promiscuous, who isn't; romance novel term)
* Falling (falling from grace; going bad; turning to the Dark Side; Faustian deals; succumbing to temptation or addiction; degradation and descent in general)
* First times (first time between two individuals; losing virginity/cherry; first time doing a particular act; first time with a particular gender)
* Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)
* Forbidden pleasures (love affairs or trysts; in general, wanting someone or something that's expressly forbidden)
* Forced orgasm
* Friendship and affection (gestures of friendship; epic friendships a la Gilgamesh/Enkidu or Alexander/Hephaistion; friendship as pre-slash)
* Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies)
* Fucking machines
* Fuck or die
* Gender themes (gender confusion; sex changes; genderfucks; hermaphrodites; cross-dressing or other forms of genderbending; drag queens and transvestites; androgyny; forced feminization; butch/femme; tomboys)
* Gentleness (tenderness; kindness; concern; gentle natures; characters who display sensitivity to fearful children, animals, the weak, etc; gentle responses at unexpected moments)
* Healing or comfort sex (post-rape or abuse; affirming life in the midst of death; captives turning to one another for comfort; one character soothing another who is deeply upset or fearful)
* Heroic gestures (nobility; self-sacrifice; risking self to save someone's life; Gift of the Magi scenarios; taking the partner's place for torture; trading sexual favors to guards to procure food or medicine for partner; heroic deaths)
* Hurt/comfort (emotional and/or physical, including torture of all kinds and degrees, and any form of caretaking)
* Immobilization and/or helplessness
* Intelligence (quick wit; street smarts; Machiavellian cleverness; Sherlock Holmesian deductive powers; geniuses; experts; criminal masterminds; see also Special powers and skills; Geeks and nebbishes)
* Intimacy
* Intoxication and altered states (aphrodisiacs; drugs or alcohol; sex pollen/spores; substances or devices that create arousal, affection, or dependency; speaking or showing the truth while intoxicated; visionary states)
* Loss of control (emotional, physical, situational, erotic, etc)
* Love and passion (falling in love; love at first sight; one true love; eternal love; unconditional love; star-crossed lovers; tempestuous passions)
* Love/hate relationship
* Masochism
* Masturbation (solitary or as performance)
* Mindfuck, mindgames
* Mirrors
* Multiple orgasms (See also Sexual appetite or excess)
* Multiple partners (sequential/serial sexual encounters; orgies, gang-bangs, or group sex; puppy-pile cuddling; see also Sexual appetite or excess)
* Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex (sexual extortion; bribery; reluctant or ambivalent partner; bondage and struggle; no means yes; other consent issues)
* Orgasm denial
* Otherness and outsiders (alien identity or transformation; mutants; demons and angels; hermaphrodites; eccentrics; elves and other magical beings; exoticism; half-human hybrids, e.g., the offspring of humans with demons, vampires, aliens, elves; racial difference in general; clones; twins; see also Secret identity; Special powers; Exoticism)
* Possession (by alien entity, spirits, or another person)
* Power issues (inequities in beauty, rank, or class; power games; BDSM; power reversals; sheikhs, sultans, princes, and other royal figures; teacher/student pairings; magical powers; abuse of power; blackmail; romantic slavery; liege/lord pairings; issues of respect; sexual scenarios such as a dominant character giving his partner to others to use, or a character kneeling beneath a desk and blowing someone who's on the phone)
* Pushy bottom
* Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)
* Restraints (handcuffs, leather ties, chains, etc)
* Restraints, full-body (stocks; suspension harnesses; fisting slings; rape racks)
* Romance (see Love and passion; Courting; Seduction)
* Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)
* Sadism or sadomasochism
* Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)
* Schmoop
* Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing; see also Courting)
* Sex change (gender swap; forced feminization; see also Gender themes)
* Sex in public or semi-public places
* Sex is interrupted
* Sex with aliens (xenophilia)
* Sexual discovery (of one's orientation; of new kinds of pleasure; of one's partner)
* Sexual experience or expertise (high number of partners; wide variety of sexual experience; demonstrating experience by taking the lead in sex or teaching one's partner)
* Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to come; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; inability of two people to touch)
* Sleep and bedding themes (sharing a bed by necessity, such as in a hotel with only one room left; sharing a sleeping bag for warmth; sex while drowsy or sleeping; sex as a sleep aid; autonomic arousal from proximity; morning wake-up sex, falling asleep against someone's shoulder; watching someone sleep; dreams; nightmares; dream lovers, e.g., succubi; exotic or romantic beds, e.g., canopied; furs as bedding; silk sheets)
* Smarm (intense friendship with physical closeness but no actual sex)
* Snark
* Spooning
* Submission (obedience; submissive behaviors such as boot kissing, crawling, keeping one's eyes lowered, or kneeling for master; believing in cultural dictates of submissive behavior; abasement in general)
* Surprises
* Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)
* Tentacle sex
* Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
* Topping
* Topping from the bottom
* Touching (stroking and caressing; cuddling or nuzzling; huddling for warmth; hugging; holding hands in public; touching as UST; brief brushes of contact either deliberate or accidental; PDAs; thighs brushing under a table; comic physical entanglements; someone gripping a wounded character's hand)
* Toughness (machismo or hyper-masculinity; physical stamina; a hard surface covering an inner softie; resolve; survival skills; teeth-gritting acts such as pulling an arrow out of one's own thigh, etc; see also Rough behavior; Bad boys, etc)
* Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)
* Tragic flaws
* Trapped or stranded together (on another world; on a desert island; in a cave-in; in a cabin during a snowstorm; in an elevator)
* Triangles (love triangles)
* Triangulation of desire (two men express their desire for each other through a female intermediary; sexual rivalry for a woman is actually homoerotic interest)
* UST (unresolved sexual tension)
* Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)
* Abuse (There are hints in canon; by this I mean exploring issues of *past* abuse)
* Abduction as seduction (beloved captives)
* Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)
* Aliens make them have sex (fuck or die; fertility rituals; intoxication; taking one for the team)
* Amnesia
* Anal penetration with foreign objects
* Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on)
* Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)
* Angst (see Emotional themes)
* BDSM
* Biological imperative (pon farr or mating drive; being in heat)
* Bisexuality
* Body swap
* Bondage
* Bonds (telepathic or empathic; psychic links; mating or soul bonds)
* Bottoming
* Canon (canon elements/canonicity heightens characterization or scenario)
* Catalysts (e.g., character A shows interest in character B, which makes character C realize how hot B is; or other catalytic events bringing about such an epiphany)
* Charisma (see Powers of attraction)
* Chastity devices
* Cock bondage (cock rings; harnesses and straps; leather ropework)
* Coming without being touched
* Confessions (revelation of love/desire; of other secrets; truth or dare games. deathbed confessions; revealing truths when feverish)
* Crossovers (characters thrust into other universes; canon universes merged; sex between characters played by same actor)
* Crush or unrequited love
* Cuddling (see Touch)
* Cunnilingus
* Delayed gratification
* Dildos (dildo gags; harnesses; strap-ons; ritual phalluses)
* Discipline or punishment
* Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable)
* Dominance and submission (See also Submission; Servitude; Master and slave, etc)
* Double penetration (anal, vaginal, or oral)
* Emotional themes, emo-kink (angst; wallows; darkfic; emotional damage; psychological trauma; tragic pasts; broken characters; guilt and shame; mental instability; sadness and grief; abandonment or fear of same; characters who can't go home again; fear in general; nightmares; loneliness; broken-heartedness; failure; insecurity; self-hatred; self-mutilation such as secret cutting; suicide; see also Insanity)
* Exhibitionism
* Face-fucking (blow-job)
* Fake rake (a man falsely rumored to be promiscuous, who isn't; romance novel term)
* Falling (falling from grace; going bad; turning to the Dark Side; Faustian deals; succumbing to temptation or addiction; degradation and descent in general)
* First times (first time between two individuals; losing virginity/cherry; first time doing a particular act; first time with a particular gender)
* Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)
* Forbidden pleasures (love affairs or trysts; in general, wanting someone or something that's expressly forbidden)
* Forced orgasm
* Friendship and affection (gestures of friendship; epic friendships a la Gilgamesh/Enkidu or Alexander/Hephaistion; friendship as pre-slash)
* Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies)
* Fucking machines
* Fuck or die
* Gender themes (gender confusion; sex changes; genderfucks; hermaphrodites; cross-dressing or other forms of genderbending; drag queens and transvestites; androgyny; forced feminization; butch/femme; tomboys)
* Gentleness (tenderness; kindness; concern; gentle natures; characters who display sensitivity to fearful children, animals, the weak, etc; gentle responses at unexpected moments)
* Healing or comfort sex (post-rape or abuse; affirming life in the midst of death; captives turning to one another for comfort; one character soothing another who is deeply upset or fearful)
* Heroic gestures (nobility; self-sacrifice; risking self to save someone's life; Gift of the Magi scenarios; taking the partner's place for torture; trading sexual favors to guards to procure food or medicine for partner; heroic deaths)
* Hurt/comfort (emotional and/or physical, including torture of all kinds and degrees, and any form of caretaking)
* Immobilization and/or helplessness
* Intelligence (quick wit; street smarts; Machiavellian cleverness; Sherlock Holmesian deductive powers; geniuses; experts; criminal masterminds; see also Special powers and skills; Geeks and nebbishes)
* Intimacy
* Intoxication and altered states (aphrodisiacs; drugs or alcohol; sex pollen/spores; substances or devices that create arousal, affection, or dependency; speaking or showing the truth while intoxicated; visionary states)
* Loss of control (emotional, physical, situational, erotic, etc)
* Love and passion (falling in love; love at first sight; one true love; eternal love; unconditional love; star-crossed lovers; tempestuous passions)
* Love/hate relationship
* Masochism
* Masturbation (solitary or as performance)
* Mindfuck, mindgames
* Mirrors
* Multiple orgasms (See also Sexual appetite or excess)
* Multiple partners (sequential/serial sexual encounters; orgies, gang-bangs, or group sex; puppy-pile cuddling; see also Sexual appetite or excess)
* Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex (sexual extortion; bribery; reluctant or ambivalent partner; bondage and struggle; no means yes; other consent issues)
* Orgasm denial
* Otherness and outsiders (alien identity or transformation; mutants; demons and angels; hermaphrodites; eccentrics; elves and other magical beings; exoticism; half-human hybrids, e.g., the offspring of humans with demons, vampires, aliens, elves; racial difference in general; clones; twins; see also Secret identity; Special powers; Exoticism)
* Possession (by alien entity, spirits, or another person)
* Power issues (inequities in beauty, rank, or class; power games; BDSM; power reversals; sheikhs, sultans, princes, and other royal figures; teacher/student pairings; magical powers; abuse of power; blackmail; romantic slavery; liege/lord pairings; issues of respect; sexual scenarios such as a dominant character giving his partner to others to use, or a character kneeling beneath a desk and blowing someone who's on the phone)
* Pushy bottom
* Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)
* Restraints (handcuffs, leather ties, chains, etc)
* Restraints, full-body (stocks; suspension harnesses; fisting slings; rape racks)
* Romance (see Love and passion; Courting; Seduction)
* Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)
* Sadism or sadomasochism
* Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)
* Schmoop
* Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing; see also Courting)
* Sex change (gender swap; forced feminization; see also Gender themes)
* Sex in public or semi-public places
* Sex is interrupted
* Sex with aliens (xenophilia)
* Sexual discovery (of one's orientation; of new kinds of pleasure; of one's partner)
* Sexual experience or expertise (high number of partners; wide variety of sexual experience; demonstrating experience by taking the lead in sex or teaching one's partner)
* Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to come; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; inability of two people to touch)
* Sleep and bedding themes (sharing a bed by necessity, such as in a hotel with only one room left; sharing a sleeping bag for warmth; sex while drowsy or sleeping; sex as a sleep aid; autonomic arousal from proximity; morning wake-up sex, falling asleep against someone's shoulder; watching someone sleep; dreams; nightmares; dream lovers, e.g., succubi; exotic or romantic beds, e.g., canopied; furs as bedding; silk sheets)
* Smarm (intense friendship with physical closeness but no actual sex)
* Snark
* Spooning
* Submission (obedience; submissive behaviors such as boot kissing, crawling, keeping one's eyes lowered, or kneeling for master; believing in cultural dictates of submissive behavior; abasement in general)
* Surprises
* Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)
* Tentacle sex
* Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
* Topping
* Topping from the bottom
* Touching (stroking and caressing; cuddling or nuzzling; huddling for warmth; hugging; holding hands in public; touching as UST; brief brushes of contact either deliberate or accidental; PDAs; thighs brushing under a table; comic physical entanglements; someone gripping a wounded character's hand)
* Toughness (machismo or hyper-masculinity; physical stamina; a hard surface covering an inner softie; resolve; survival skills; teeth-gritting acts such as pulling an arrow out of one's own thigh, etc; see also Rough behavior; Bad boys, etc)
* Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)
* Tragic flaws
* Trapped or stranded together (on another world; on a desert island; in a cave-in; in a cabin during a snowstorm; in an elevator)
* Triangles (love triangles)
* Triangulation of desire (two men express their desire for each other through a female intermediary; sexual rivalry for a woman is actually homoerotic interest)
* UST (unresolved sexual tension)
* Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)