Comments | goodghirl: RANT

goodghirl

RANT

Feb 22, 2008 19:47

I'm so fucking fed up of people having a problem with the fact I'm poly and with Jamie

1. I'm poly, I always have been

2. Jamie knows he's always known I've never hidden it

3. I love Jamie

4. I am on the look out for a play partner

5. it's really no one of your business who or what I do

I really don't understand people big issue with the fact I'm poly ( Read more... )

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mysty_twilight February 22 2008, 20:18:28 UTC

Hugs you.

You do what is right for you and f..k the rest of them. It's at times like these you know who your real friends are.

Love n hugs

Sxxxx

shullie February 22 2008, 20:24:24 UTC

what Sarah says... what works for yo is your's and Jamies business and no one elses

xxxxx

dk_leathers February 22 2008, 22:04:34 UTC

ditto!!

drcruel February 23 2008, 14:52:32 UTC

Seconded. I used to be more tolerant of intolerance; these days I ask questions like, "Did you learn that in your first marriage or your second?" I've never quite gotten angry enough to say, "I'm sorry, I really don't want advice from someone who isn't in a happy relationship," but give it time.

Fuck 'em.

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katianna February 23 2008, 06:16:42 UTC

I know you know this but here it goes.

Live your life the way you want to otherwise you will not be happy and above all don't worry about what other people think. You have no reason to explain yourself to anyone buy your loved ones and even then it is your life to live. People who think like that obviously have no clue what Poly is.

~hugs~

goodghirl February 23 2008, 18:34:29 UTC

Your right

thank you

~X~

amberb_uk February 23 2008, 18:23:44 UTC

Don't feel bad C hun. It's not you (or J) with the problem here xxx

goodghirl February 23 2008, 18:33:34 UTC

Thanks xx

Ponderings .......... lil_mynx_of_mrb February 24 2008, 22:33:43 UTC

Why do you care what they think? Why do you allow it to rattle you so much? You no more understand their issue with poly, than they understand poly. I think you are expecting people to be tolerant ...... people in general are not, and I think that is something you have to come to terms with, sad as it may be. I personally am not tolerant of everything, because it may well go against my feelings/thoughts/comfort zones. The jury is out on poly for me, I've seen ones that work, and ones that don't, as much as 1-2-1 relationships in fact! Poly is not personally for me, dosen't mean I don't understand it though. I am comfortable with B playing with others, but I have no desire to be with someone else, or have someone as a permanent feature in our relationship ( ... )