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[gorgeouswoman]

I'm doing better. I've been making some effort to make it known to everybody by at least the rumor mill what is going on because I don't want to come out of the house and face all the usual "how's the baby" and "how far along are you again" that I usually get asked. It's this fear that is keeping me in the house right now. I'm sure the news has

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[shadowpryde]

I wish I'd read your earlier post earlier ... not that it would've done any good.

I'm so very sorry to hear about this tragedy, especially since you'd made some very hard choices about your life because of it.

If you want to sit and hide for awhile, that's your right. That baby was real and you knew it and it's perfectly healthy to mourn for it.

There will come a time, though, when you need to go out and have fun and have a drink because you will need to move on ... but that doesn't need to be right away and when you choose to come back out into the world, it's ok to have fun and it's ok to be weepy and it's ok to feel a little guilty because you're here and the baby's not. Just don't get so immersed in any of those things that you don't live your life in a real way.

Best wishes, R.

-DL-

[iamcompufrog]

The world is neither fair nor rational.

I hurt for you, but in some ways I am also relieved for you. The fact that the baby didn't make it is reason to understand that it really wasn't meant to be.

Mich & I lost a baby between Kyria and Samantha, a son, stillborn after she spent 8+ weeks in the hospital trying to save it. It was not meant to be... but we ended up with Samantha later on, who we love and adore.

My life is not doing much better, sweetheart... if it is at all. Do know that I still dearly love you, and I do truly hurt for you.

Take care.