Unsure

[gossipgirlcairn]

I'm over the anger now. I've moved on to the confusion. Maybe you guys can help. Should I meet with him so he can explain, yes or no? Part of me wants to hear what he has to say, but the other part of me doesn't even want to see him at all

Comments

[dramaclub_queen]

Maybe you should meet up with him? I mean, you don't have to take him back. Just let him explain? I don't know. I honestly have no clue what I would do in your situation.

[gossipgirlcairn]

Me either. I want to hear what he has to say, but I don't want to face him. But doing it over the phone is so lame. I'm so confused.

[dramaclub_queen]

Maybe you could meet him somewhere public. That way you're not at either of your houses and you can just leave if things get weird.

[gossipgirlcairn]

Good thinking, I may try that! You're the best Shar!

[acoustical_abby]

Well, y'know, you could hear what he has to say, but wear a blindfold, so you can't see him...?

Okay, the stupid suggestion is out of the way. I think you should meet with him. But not to hear what he has to say. That gives him more than he deserves. Meet with him to tell him what a jerk he is.

[gossipgirlcairn]

I don't know what I want to do yet. I've never been so confused.

[acoustical_abby]

Cairn, you're supposed to be confused. Don't worry about it. You don't have to rush to sort out your feelings, because Chad should be the one feeling bad, and the longer you leave him feeling bad, the worse he'll feel.

[gossipgirlcairn]

Yeah. Maybe I'll meet up with him over the weekend.