Well, this is a dilemma, ain't it? My advice, though how helpful it'll be I don't know, is to sit them all down and talk bout it. Hash out the problem areas and make it clear that you don't want to be in the middle. Again, not sure what good this'll do, but there's my 2 cents.
Brownies...midnyte_wolfApril 25 2006, 21:21:21 UTC
PASS OUT DA' BROWNIES!! o(^.^)b
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But seriously, XD I know exactly how you feel. It's the same position I'm always in when my friends fight. They always come runnin' after me and drag me into the middle, expecting me to take their side, hear their points, and make everythin' better. ...Usually that just happens with me hearin' both sides and talkin' it over with them. Eventually it evens out. ._. My friends are always goin' at each other's throats, I've learned how to stay neutral.
However, seeing yer situation, sounds like they need a heavy talkin' to... And brownies! Brownies please!
Just talk to em' seperately, one at a time, be sympathetic, relate, (sorry maybe? even if you haven't really done anything... it'll make them feel better) and talk about the other- nicely, in depth, with feeling. Then go and repeat with the other one.
^_^ Maybe you can pull it off. But what do I know?? I'm just needed those brownies in there... Ta babe! Hope it works out y'all. ^.^; *smewch*
Re: Brownies...midnyte_wolfApril 27 2006, 03:57:54 UTC
^^ Me? A counselor?? That would be a sad day for the universe, me walkin' in a newly fresh, bright, and retarded counselor whose only solution would be to pass out brownies... Or go make sea shell necklaces with Shida-chan... Yeah, I can see that happenin'... The apocolypse is near!
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My advice, though how helpful it'll be I don't know, is to sit them all down and talk bout it. Hash out the problem areas and make it clear that you don't want to be in the middle.
Again, not sure what good this'll do, but there's my 2 cents.
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*runs around in circles*
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But seriously, XD I know exactly how you feel. It's the same position I'm always in when my friends fight. They always come runnin' after me and drag me into the middle, expecting me to take their side, hear their points, and make everythin' better. ...Usually that just happens with me hearin' both sides and talkin' it over with them. Eventually it evens out. ._. My friends are always goin' at each other's throats, I've learned how to stay neutral.
However, seeing yer situation, sounds like they need a heavy talkin' to... And brownies! Brownies please!
Just talk to em' seperately, one at a time, be sympathetic, relate, (sorry maybe? even if you haven't really done anything... it'll make them feel better) and talk about the other- nicely, in depth, with feeling. Then go and repeat with the other one.
^_^ Maybe you can pull it off. But what do I know?? I'm just needed those brownies in there... Ta babe! Hope it works out y'all. ^.^; *smewch*
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*gaspo* I can't make brownies!! What kind of maniac would I be if I did know!?!?! *nearly faints*
*sniff sniff*
POCKEY!!!!!!
*prances off toward pockey*
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RUN FOR YER LIVES!!
*runs after Shida-chan for pockey too*
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