Courage or Slut?

[gravito]

Okay, I realize a few of you aren't going to like the subject, but after my last update, I figure I need something to grab your attention. I'm a tad bit confused as to why girls sometimes start conversations with me when I'm at the bar playing pool or whatever.

So I was a tad bit drunk.

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Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[queen_phoenix]

Well, well, well...I guess you knew I would show up to blast on this one

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[gravito]

What in the heck are you babbling about?

I don't know, I guess I'm a bit pissed off that I got sick last night and haven't felt well all day today.

You can see it in a woman's eyes though. That "adoration look". It's scary. It also seems fake. I know women see it in men's eyes all the time, but they manage or deal with it. When I'm talking to a girl, the last thing I want to worry about is why she's staring at me straight in the eyes. It's like she wants to learn and know more.

I'm thinking of making a shirt that says, "Not husband material" and wearing it out to the bars. That way I can be open about the fact that I'm a college graduate that is finacially secure and not have to worry about women possibly hitting on me.

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[queen_phoenix]

When I see that look in men's eyes yes I deal with it...I run like heck the other way...

The shirt would be a good idea...I think if I saw that I WOULD have to come up and talk to you and say Whas up? And start laughing hilariously...You just gotta find out what's going on with a sense of humor like that..

I really hope that you are feeling better...Just go with the flow of being sick...Getting pissed off seems to make it worse...I used to till I read this article that said "Release yourself and enjoy the reprieve from life and take it easy...And then it went on to state enjoy the feeling of seeing your hand reach for a glass of water and not really feeling like it's yours...Hmmm some other things make you feel like that too but ok! Since then when I get sick I go with it and just try to enjoy it...Another weirdo idea from me..

Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[gravito]

Also, I guess I didn't think of your point that I should expect that from women in a bar. I mean, I don't go to the gym or anywhere else where people sometimes talk socially. The closest thing is the landromat and I can be as secluded as I like there. But when I go out to the bars it is to hang out with people I already know, not to make new friends

[queen_phoenix]

Dang see you got me so upset I couldn't spell argument and got some of my wording wrong...Ahhhhh if I only had the chance to verbally argue you down on this point!!!