After twenty years, I'm finally figuring out a few priceless things that are helping my inner kid. Maybe they'll help some friends that are getting bullied and teased, too
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Hahaha! NO, it's not a bad sign. "You can't argue with crazy" comes from my own family experiences. The funny thing is that I had a much easier time loving the crazy people in my life once I was able to say "you're nuts right now" and just let them say the unstoppable nutty things they were compelled to say. I couldn't love them when we were fighting for control of each other and someone had to be Right.
Yeah, that was the line that made the thought pop into my head. :D
Sometimes I wonder if my non-nuclear family wonders where I wandered off to... I don't talk to basically any of them any more because I couldn't deal with the negativity and the crazy.
I couldn't agree more. That there is the Everlasting GobStopper of the Soul. You can just keep chewing on it again and again, and you'll keep realizing that you are (semi-) consciously choosing to feel the way you do. And you can change that whenever you feel like taking yourself someplace else.
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Hmmmmmmmm....
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NO, it's not a bad sign. "You can't argue with crazy" comes from my own family experiences. The funny thing is that I had a much easier time loving the crazy people in my life once I was able to say "you're nuts right now" and just let them say the unstoppable nutty things they were compelled to say.
I couldn't love them when we were fighting for control of each other and someone had to be Right.
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Sometimes I wonder if my non-nuclear family wonders where I wandered off to... I don't talk to basically any of them any more because I couldn't deal with the negativity and the crazy.
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Sounds simple, but has quite powerful repurcussions if taken to heart!
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That there is the Everlasting GobStopper of the Soul.
You can just keep chewing on it again and again, and you'll keep realizing that you are (semi-) consciously choosing to feel the way you do. And you can change that whenever you feel like taking yourself someplace else.
Heavy, rewarding stuff.
(/me bows deeply)
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