Today, a guy friend of mine met Emmanuel, and I was joking that we had a looonnng history [Emmanuel and I]. So the guy said something along the lines of "So you know Melissa's a guy, right
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I know my opinion doesn't help much, because I'm more of a guy than you (people here often tell me, "You're such a guy!"), but personally I think you look and act like a girl. Also, you might not be incredibly attractive, but I think you look like a typical, cute Asian girl. :) And most average people are dateable (I think that's a word), you just have to find the right person you connect with. Anyway, after first impressions, looks don't matter much. Unfortunately, looks are usually all people have to judge others on when they first meet them, but in the end it's the personality that counts (I learned all this in my communications class, haha). :) So don't worry about actively trying to make yourself "dateable," since I think you already are, you just haven't done anything because you haven't met a guy you click with. But that's what college is for! So no rush, you've only been in college a few months, something's bound to happen naturally sooner or later. :)It's not so bad to be guy-like, anyway. I mean, as you probably know, I'm
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yeah, I guess it's not too bad to be guy-like. There are certain things you can say to guys that you can't say to girls...plus you can't punch girls just for fun.
Haha, yeah, I guess I haven't been here very long. But it seems like months move much slower here...every week is packed with stuff from assignments to drama explosions.
It's hard to describe your character. Hmm. You're like a mix between a young girl and an adolescent male.
Perhaps start dating someone that's in one of your networking groups, such as your business group. Or Asian groups. People in those are more likely to connect with (and date) others.
Yes, the adolescent male part is worrying. Maybe I should just drop it out of the character I present to the world. Just secretly check girls out, hahaha...
But isn't it easier to deal with a person who's somewhat like you?
To your question: yes and no. Obviously you'll look for someone with similar interests, but people very identical to you are better friends than lovers. You should find someone who helps you become a better person. Hence the social groups I hinted at.
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Haha, yeah, I guess I haven't been here very long. But it seems like months move much slower here...every week is packed with stuff from assignments to drama explosions.
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Perhaps start dating someone that's in one of your networking groups, such as your business group. Or Asian groups. People in those are more likely to connect with (and date) others.
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But isn't it easier to deal with a person who's somewhat like you?
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To your question: yes and no. Obviously you'll look for someone with similar interests, but people very identical to you are better friends than lovers. You should find someone who helps you become a better person. Hence the social groups I hinted at.
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