Well, I don't know if this is what you want to hear or not, but here it is-
If someone does not want to be with you any more there is not a lot you can do to change it. I know this from being a guy, once your interest is either gone, or something has happened to change your feelings about a person, there is nothing they can do to turn it around. I have been on both sides of this, I have had girlfriends try to come back to me after I have broken it off, and I have been the one to try to get someone to give me a second chance after a breakup. The thing is, you can't force someone to have positive feelings for you, just doesn't work.
I would just honestly say that you should take solace in the fact that you're not doomed to a life of loneliness. I mean, you don't have a hunch back, or the flesh eating virus, or a anything that would bar you from finding someone else when you're ready. You're attractive, smart, and that's a LOT more than most people have going for them. Good luck.
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If someone does not want to be with you any more there is not a lot you can do to change it. I know this from being a guy, once your interest is either gone, or something has happened to change your feelings about a person, there is nothing they can do to turn it around. I have been on both sides of this, I have had girlfriends try to come back to me after I have broken it off, and I have been the one to try to get someone to give me a second chance after a breakup. The thing is, you can't force someone to have positive feelings for you, just doesn't work.
I would just honestly say that you should take solace in the fact that you're not doomed to a life of loneliness. I mean, you don't have a hunch back, or the flesh eating virus, or a anything that would bar you from finding someone else when you're ready. You're attractive, smart, and that's a LOT more than most people have going for them. Good luck.
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