amen to that.. no matter how great things seem to be, how timeless joy can fill your life, how unlikely that people around you whom you care for ever leave you.. it'll all end someday when you least expect it.. I spoke some words with barely a second thought, and it nearly cost me 3 friends this weekend.. I still am friends with 2 of them, the third is still a big question mark.. Accepting that everything has a path in life, and that since theirs is not yours or they would be you, gives the understanding that they have to leave someday to reach their goal, while keeping them from leaving you might stop them from doing so. It's even the same when both of your paths end at the same attained goal, since the other person might not be able to follow your trail.. Still, departure is sad..
departure is always the hardest part, it is the thing that makes it hard to accept. But the fact that departure is sad means that the time or person that you say goodbye to is a good one, that could also be a reason to celibrate the fact that they have been in your life
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indeed.. people and things move on, and so should you ;) no use in being on a path if you stand still.. if people where destined to stay, they wouldn't have left in the first place..
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how unlikely that people around you whom you care for ever leave you.. it'll all end
someday when you least expect it.. I spoke some words with barely a second thought, and
it nearly cost me 3 friends this weekend.. I still am friends with 2 of them, the third
is still a big question mark..
Accepting that everything has a path in life, and that since theirs is not yours or they
would be you, gives the understanding that they have to leave someday to reach their goal,
while keeping them from leaving you might stop them from doing so.
It's even the same when both of your paths end at the same attained goal, since the other
person might not be able to follow your trail.. Still, departure is sad..
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if you stand still.. if people where destined to stay, they wouldn't have left in
the first place..
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