100% Perfect Boy For Me

Jun 21, 2005 11:06


Musings on Love, Part I:


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miguelstentacle June 21 2005, 09:31:45 UTC
my heart aches when i think of myself.

hey, are you korean? for some reason i thought you were of the chinese flavor.

i'm really looking foward to part II. sounds more familiar to me. actually, i think i'll make my own post about the perfect mate. i will entitle it: 76% Perfect Girl For Me -- For Now, Not Forever. whadday think?

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gugyon June 21 2005, 11:42:13 UTC
ooh that should be the title of my Part II essay on love. that's actually pretty much on the ball.

Nope, I'm of the Korean flavor. Are you?

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journalyearzero June 21 2005, 11:57:50 UTC
You Koreans totally cribbed the three-beings-divided-in-half tale from Plato's Symposium. We were originally six-limbed intertwined creatures that Zeus split in half because he was afraid we were powerful enough to take over Mount Olympus. For a supreme deity Zeus was such a paranoid wuss.

Or maybe the Greeks stole it from the Koreans.

No comment on the Murakami.

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gugyon June 21 2005, 12:05:34 UTC
as my know-it-all boyfriend reminded me, yes, it IS indeed from Plato, not a korean folktale. I knew I had heard it somewhere but was not sure.

I was also thinking that I'd written about Murakami a lot lately, considering the fact that I have my reservations about him as a writer and think he's only charming in very little doses, such as this one. I liked only little bits and parts of "Kafka On the Shore"--did not like it as a whole book at all...

It's just the diehard romantic in me that makes me think of these stories when I think of love. =)

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journalyearzero June 21 2005, 12:16:51 UTC
Now you can heave a sigh of relief that your know-it-all-(P)latonic-friend confirmed that your know-it-all-boyfriend is indeed correct (not that different civilizations coming up with strikingly similar myths is uncommon, of course -- have you read The Golden Bough? Good god what a great book). So there really isn't any such Korean folktale?

Murakami charming in any dosage? Please reference with page numbers and secondary sources. I just don't get his appeal -- I think his writing and ideas are uniformly lousy -- but I'm still holding out hope that he's someone I'll at least appreciate rather than dislike intensely (say, Todd Solondz rather than Baz Luhrmann). If you're looking for reaffirmation of romance there's a bazillion other reliable places to go.

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gugyon June 21 2005, 12:22:23 UTC
like where? recommendations please. i'll check out the golden bough, too.

you know i wouldn't be surprised if there was a similar mythology/tale from korea either.

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sexyporky June 21 2005, 13:26:29 UTC
I once was with a girl who was 95% my true love. I have never found another girl like her.

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a sad story don't you think?

:(

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gugyon June 23 2005, 11:45:38 UTC
Aww Chris...can't you return to her?

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sexyporky June 24 2005, 13:18:10 UTC
things happen, we just have to move along...sadly, all the kings men couldn't put Humpty back together again

:'(

hey guboogie, i've been hearing alot about murakami... if your friend only had the time for ONE book, which would u recommend?

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gugyon June 24 2005, 13:43:11 UTC
depends a lot on what you like...if you like surrealist absurdity, try hard boiled...or wild sheep chase...or kafka. but if not, and if you like straight up 20-30-something angsty relationship filled stories, sputnik sweetheart and/or norwegian wood. i think norwegian wood was very popular in korea so maybe it does something for the korean psyche.

sorry, humpty. =(

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la_aquarius June 28 2005, 06:34:13 UTC
Hey Sharon --

this must be in the collective unconscious right now...peppermintyy posted an entry on this story recently! :D It's deceptively simple and crystallized. I was happy to read it again on your blog.

(and I also wanted to tip you off that I posted another music link on my blog, but I think it's expiring in a couple of days ;D)

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rancor4real June 28 2005, 12:14:12 UTC
Does your heart ache when you think of your lover?

I literally can't catch my breath when I think of her.

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