like tears, in rain

[guiltyred]

I haven't posted much lately - in a long time, really. Life just kept kicking me and I didn't feel like talking about it, bringing everyone down. But I need to reach out. I desperately need to cry where other people can see it, especially when my wife is crying too and we can barely hold each other up.

Comments

[ani_mama]

I am so sorry about your cat. You did the best you could. *hugs*

[yanagi_sen]

I'm so sorry. Its so hard to lose our furry family members. I think they do know. I still remember one time I was visiting my mom and she told me that my cat (that I had through high school and college) wasn't well and she had an appointment that week and my mom didn't expect the word to be good. Trina hadn't really moved much wouldn't come to my mom or anything. But I went upstairs and she was curled up on my mom's bed. She came over to me. I could tell she was saying goodbye. It was a tumor she had for a while, inoperable, but while she was still eating and happy we didn't want to end it, but it was beyond that point. She wasn't well, and I knew, and she knew, and she was saying goodbye. It was hard to leave that day and know I wouldn't see her again, but I also knew it was best for her. I know in the future when I cross the waters and enter the Summerlands, she'll be waiting, as will my other furry family members. *hugs*

[bleedtoblue]

I'm sorry about your cat. *hugs*

[bewsbud]

I'm very sorry for your loss.
*hugs*