I would remind you of all the free things I've done for you -- but then you'd remind me they're all predicated on (1) keeping you happy and rent paying and (2) being 24/7 IT tech support for my laptop power cord destroying ways. Not much in life is free, I suppose.
If I decide to sell my 3GS back to AT&T, they'll pay me $144 which means the new 4 only cost me $56. That's a great deal for the step up.
But then I was thinking that Mommie Dearest has announced she wants a cell phone, and it might make some sense to give the old 3GS to her, combining both cell phone and mini-computer in one. I'll eventually talk to her about it.
No, no... Your instincts are good, and commendable. Wanting to give to those in need is a very good trait, as is empathizing with those not being heard. It just needs to occur in practical situations. It's still not your responsibility.
The other situation you mentioned the other day -- giving money to someone who tried unsuccessfully to buy something, that's different. You knew there was a need, you saw exactly how it hurt the person, the person didn't beg, you could immediately and directly address the need. But you're going to pass random panhandlers hourly if not minute-ly where you're at. You can't help everyone.
Same thing with the iPad -- Steve Jobs and his marketing people design the process so you crave it and CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT IT! when you can. Just good you were told NO and didn't pay up.
I was going to repost for you, but I appreciate your efforts in reading the original post.
The pies are quite good. I made them (2) in small fluted tart forms with removable bottoms, about 6" in diameter. They looked fantastic, but I didn't grease the edges so they could not be removed. I dug into one of them, but the prettier of the two I saved in case I get a fuck-fest reprieve before the week is out.
The interaction with the homeless man is the most fascinating and slightly disturbing thing to me in this post.
Why did you feel that you had to prove to the begging man that you didn't have any money for him? He probably asks the same question to 95% the people he passes on the street. I'm fascinated by the fact that unlike most everyone else who said, "No," and kept walking, you chose to interact with him. I think it says a lot about you. It also makes me wonder how you can stand living in a city!
AOTD: On Sunday - yesterday- a woman had an extra ticket for a concert I was attending. We had never met. She was right behind me in line to go in, and saved me 10 bucks!
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But then I was thinking that Mommie Dearest has announced she wants a cell phone, and it might make some sense to give the old 3GS to her, combining both cell phone and mini-computer in one. I'll eventually talk to her about it.
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The other situation you mentioned the other day -- giving money to someone who tried unsuccessfully to buy something, that's different. You knew there was a need, you saw exactly how it hurt the person, the person didn't beg, you could immediately and directly address the need. But you're going to pass random panhandlers hourly if not minute-ly where you're at. You can't help everyone.
Same thing with the iPad -- Steve Jobs and his marketing people design the process so you crave it and CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT IT! when you can. Just good you were told NO and didn't pay up.
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The Apple sounds sweet, but the blueberry pie sounds even better. Keep smiling (or else!).
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The pies are quite good. I made them (2) in small fluted tart forms with removable bottoms, about 6" in diameter. They looked fantastic, but I didn't grease the edges so they could not be removed. I dug into one of them, but the prettier of the two I saved in case I get a fuck-fest reprieve before the week is out.
I doubt it, though.
Enjoy your week. xoxo
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Why did you feel that you had to prove to the begging man that you didn't have any money for him? He probably asks the same question to 95% the people he passes on the street. I'm fascinated by the fact that unlike most everyone else who said, "No," and kept walking, you chose to interact with him. I think it says a lot about you. It also makes me wonder how you can stand living in a city!
AOTD: On Sunday - yesterday- a woman had an extra ticket for a concert I was attending. We had never met. She was right behind me in line to go in, and saved me 10 bucks!
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