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[guns_and_lovers]

I am NOT trying to be an asshole in the following paragraph, I feel for the girl yes, but I am going to say what I think too. I'm sorry if this offends you. There's no right way to say this.
So as you all are sure to find out, somegirl slit her wrists today in our bathroom.  It was awful because I was next door and we heard this loud scream, it

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[amazingrando]

I'm a friend of apparently one of your friends, though I by no means have any other connection to what happened at your school.

Yes, wrist-cutting is a cry for attention. Nothing more, nothing less. It is someone saying please, for the love of God, help me. Fine, they might not be as "strong" as you because of it, but have you stopped to think that maybe this was the only way she felt she could get the help she needed? Did you stop to think that maybe, if no one helped her with this, showed her they did love and care for her, she would take the next step and actually kill herself?

I used to be just as cynical as you about self-mutilation as a way to get pity. Then my brother started cutting himself. Yeah, at first I thought he was being an attention-seeking whiner, but I came to realize that this was just his own fucked up way of saying "Please, I need help."

So, essentially, lay off. Some people's minds work completely different from yours. This is just what hers told her to do.

[willmurphy]

uh if you dont even know him (him being mikey) who are you to say hes being cynical

[hottblumarkerz]

id like to say in response to this

[brohanks]

Only about 1% of suicides are warranted. 99% it is a cry for help because they NEED attention or the NEED everything to go their way. I notice a lot of you rich faggots in Naperville seem to have a fit if life doesn't go your way. I can't wait until you all hit the real world. Failure is all I predict.

[brohanks]

The girl who slit her wrists, has a reason to be upset, but not to slit her wrists, she's a fucking loser. So is her boyfriend for not being faithful. In my opinion, dancing with another girl when yo uhave a significant other is CHEATING.

[brohanks]

like most of the people here...i have no clue what really went down with all the rumors and all.

but um since when is dancing cheating? its not like he fucked her or kissed her or even held her hand...maybe things in her life were seriously fucked and she didn't know how to handle it...and maybe she seeing her boyfriend dancing with another chick was the last straw that set her off. it's so apparent she did it for attention, because well hello...but she could have handled it better. she prolly just wasn't thinking and didn't know what to do or how to tell anyone...so she did what she did. just guessing.

athough i do feel bad for her, because maybe there is a deeper problem behind all of this...i totally can see why people think she's dumb for what she did.

[stephxhead11]

"She's not going to get the attention she wanted"

she oviously is getting the attention she wanted if thats all people are talking about...shes fucked up she made a mistake she needs help and thats all there is to it so just drop it...no1 really knows what happened enless they talk 2 her in person i think its sad that someone would slip that low but its even sader when the hole school turns against her because of a stupid decision she made i honestly dont have any sympathy for her what so ever...every1 goes through shit in their lives but you dont see everyone else cutting their rists...but at the same time im trying not 2 make such a big deal out of it it has absalutly nothing to do with me or anyone so dont get so envolved in the hold thing....just drop it

[guns_and_lovers]

Yeah, your right, I'm giving her attention. I don't want to get involved in the whole thing, but I guess I already am... So I will drop it.

And don't any of you keep tell me I'm an asshole because I think slitting your wrists is for attention. And I'm not hating her, just the idea of it. So enough.

[stephxhead11]

i dont think your an asshold i love you mikey bear!!

sorry if i sounded like a bitch i was in a bad mood cuz of the snow...haha

[guns_and_lovers]

Me too, I fucking hate that snow. Especially in March. And I lurve you too Stephyyy

[bo0b0og]

mikey your def. not an asshole.. i feel similar too . i just dont understand this things that people say, i think from what i hear she should get help and i dont think anyone should treat her any different at school czu i mean that would just be odd for me atleast i just think she needs help not a bunch of people saying are you okay are you okay?.. but yeah that is my idear.. =).. gabbie

[guns_and_lovers]

Yeah.

[totallynotadam]

i agree, if she would've just kept it low and not made a big scene she wouldnt have fucked herself up for in the long run. now whenever shes like ooo im so sad today people will be like ARE YOU OKAY, DO YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT? if she had just gone to the counselor and talked about it she could've handled it and kept it her business.

[hottblumarkerz]

i dont think anyone deserves to die

she obviously had problems and didnt know what to do with them and handled them poorly but no one deserves to die ..