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[gwygwy]

I did not remember posting that last post until just now. Wowsers

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[shortmessage]

pfft I don't think age is really that big of a deal after both partied are out of high school. He can't be THAT much younger than you are. I don't think it should be a problem. If you like him and he likes you, just go with it and haters to the left!
It's not wrong for you to enjoy the attention of a guy who you like! :) Have fun!

[bookfixated]

If you are under the age of 25 age seems like a big deal. Once you are past 25 (which is about when everyone has their shit together) no one cares how many years you are apart. My parents are 19 years apart in age. They have been married for 29 years. My dad was 40 and my mom was 21 when they got married, and only dated for 3 months before getting married, but they are still together and have had a pretty amazing life I think.

But age is a big deal when you are still young. So many things happen in the span of 4 years (18 to 21, you become legal and then you are legally able to drink), that sometimes it feels like age is a huge issue.

Follow your heart, no one else knows what is best.

[reefrained]

it would only be bad if you wanted a freshman because he was an easy target- someone who you didnt have to invest yourself in to be with, or somebody who was easy enough to like and to pursue and attain without really examining why you want to.
but i think if you like him for himself and can easily see him as an equally cognitively developed human being... like... if age only comes into when you think about it, you never have am moment of thinking about how young he seems then whatever, go for it.